> (2) Both John is going to married and Mary is going to married.
This is not something you will hear a native speaker say, however
these are:
John and Mary are both going to be married. OKBoth John
and Mary are going to be married. OK
If it's not clear from the
context you can add something like: "but not to each other."
Hope
this helps.
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Ian Jackson - 29 Jan 2010 19:28 GMT
>> (2) Both John is going to married and Mary is going to married.
>This is not something you will hear a native speaker say, however
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>Hope
> this helps.
If you meant that John was going to marry Mary, you would not use
"both". "Both" would mean that "each of them" (or "each one", or "each")
was going to marry somebody else. [In this context "both" and "each" are
interchangeable.]
"John and Mary are going to be married" would normally mean that they
were going to marry each other - unless you knew that this was not what
was meant. [For example, they might be brother and sister, or you
already know that John is 17 years old and Mary is 93!] As RayH says, if
the meaning is not clear, you would need to add something like "but not
to each other."
Note: Beware of confusing "John and Mary are going *each* to be married"
with "John and Mary are going to marry *each* other". These sentences
have opposite meanings!

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Ian Jackson - 29 Jan 2010 19:54 GMT
>Note: Beware of confusing "John and Mary are going *each* to be
>married" with "John and Mary are going to marry *each* other". These
>sentences have opposite meanings!
Oops! Wrong order of words.
"John and Mary are going *each* to be married" should be:
"John and Mary are *each* going to be married".

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Just a follow-up on my original answer.
1. John is going to be/get
married, and Mary is going to be/get married. It's not completely
clear but my assumption would be that they are not marrying each
other. Note also that this is a very awkward sentence.
3a. John
ate both rice and beans.
3b. John both laughed and cried.3c. John
ate rice and Mary ate beans. "both" cannot be used here.4. Both you
and I are cute. OR You and I are both cute.
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> (4) Both [you] and me are cute.
--> Both you and I are cute

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> Dear all,
>
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> (1) John is going to married, and Mary is going to married.
"Going to" indicates intent to do something in the future. "Married" is
a past event. Therefore, "going to married" makes no sense. "Going to
marry" or "going to get married" are normal ways to state the future,
and "were married" for the past.
"John is going to marry, and Mary is going to marry" is grammatical, but
we wouldn't say it that way. If they are going to marry each other,
"John and Mary are going to marry" (or, usually, "get married") is
normal, and if to others, "John is going to marry, and so is Mary"
should convey that.
> The second question is whether the sentence in (2) is grammatical.
>
> (2) Both John is going to married and Mary is going to married.
Generally a comma precedes the "and" in a compound sentence (two
separate main clauses).
> Some articles I recently read say that the following 'both...and'
> sentences in (3) are unacceptable. The generalization (my own
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> (3) a. *Both [John ate rice] and beans.
This would have to be "John ate both rice and beans".
> b. *Both [John laughed] and he cried.
"John both laughed and cried."
> c. *Both [John ate rice] and Mary ate beans.
This is okay. In all three, "both" is unnecessary.
> (4) Both [you] and me are cute.
"Both you and I are cute" or "Both of us are cute".
Bill in Kentucky
Pete - 31 Jan 2010 10:59 GMT
>> c. *Both [John ate rice] and Mary ate beans.
>
> This is okay.
Surely not. I would leave out 'both' -
John ate rice and Mary ate beans
- or rewrite it:
Both John and Mary ate, but he had rice and she had beans.
Peter