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Zurab57 - 17 Feb 2010 17:26 GMT
What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
tony cooper - 17 Feb 2010 17:28 GMT
>What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.

Gal.
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Zurab57 - 17 Feb 2010 18:02 GMT
> >What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>
> Gal.
> --
> Tony Cooper - Orlando, Florida

Thanks, certainly it is in my English - Russian, but not in Russian -
English Dictionary (ABBYY Lingvo 12).
Athel Cornish-Bowden - 18 Feb 2010 12:25 GMT
>> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>
> Gal.

Interesting. For a non-rhotic speaker like me "gal" has much the same
sound as "girl", but for you (I'd guess) it sounds very different. If
so, how come "girl" has been converted into a non-rhotic equivalent? Do
you think of "gal" as a distorted pronunciation of "girl", or as
something quite different?

In my grandmother's time "gel" (with a hard g) was common in
upper-class BrE, but I don't suppose she'd ever have said "guy".

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athel

Cece - 18 Feb 2010 18:55 GMT
> >> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>
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> --
> athel

In the Queen's English, do "girl" and "gel" sound almost exactly the
same?  That is, is the "e" a place-holding vowel with almost no
specific sound to it?  That spelling confused me mightily when I
encountered it in novels (was it Christie?).

American "gal" is pronounced /g&l/; "girl" is /gRl/.  American
Heritage says that "gal" is an "alteration of girl."
Athel Cornish-Bowden - 19 Feb 2010 10:41 GMT
>> On 2010-02-17 18:28:44 +0100, tony cooper <tony_cooper...@earthlink.net>
> said:
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> same?  That is, is the "e" a place-holding vowel with almost no
> specific sound to it?

The form is virtually dead, and I doubt whether even the Queen uses it
today. However, when it was used the e was a definite /e/, somewhat
lengthened (i.e. a bit longer than in the current word "gel" with soft
g, which is not noticeably different from the first syllable of
"jelly". Definitely more than a schwa.

>  That spelling confused me mightily when I
> encountered it in novels (was it Christie?).

Quite likely to be Christie, I would think. It's the sort of spelling
she might have used to indicate that someone (most likely a woman; my
impression is that it wasn't ever used much by men, but I may be wrong
about that) was very old-fashioned.

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Dr Peter Young - 17 Feb 2010 18:22 GMT
> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.

Doll, according to the classic musical.

With best wishes,

Peter.

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Farmer Giles - 17 Feb 2010 21:30 GMT
>> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>
> Doll, according to the classic musical.

That would certainly be the American pairing, but in Britain it would
normally be 'Gal' - it would depend on the circumstances though.
Pat Durkin - 18 Feb 2010 00:16 GMT
>>> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>>
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> would normally be 'Gal' - it would depend on the circumstances
> though.

My mother preferred "gal", because that is how she referred to herself
and her pals.  They scoffed at "doll", which they defined as "an
empty-headed plaything".
As for that musical play...well, Broadway to Hollywood.  Good songs,
bad acting.
mm - 17 Feb 2010 21:32 GMT
>> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>
>Doll, according to the classic musical.

Doesn't "Guys and Dolls" include a description of who calls them
dolls?  Something like, "If they ..., we's calls them dolls."  I
havent' seen the show since 1977, but I remember that part.   I think
it was a set of fictional gamblers, but maybe real horsebetters use
the same term.

>With best wishes,
>
>Peter.

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tony cooper - 17 Feb 2010 22:26 GMT
>> What is the pair word for "Guy" according to female.
>
>Doll, according to the classic musical.
>
>With best wishes,

"Doll" may have worked in Damon Runyon's day, but it isn't really
acceptable today.  It's not really offensive, but - like "chick",
"babe", and "broad" - it's not going to go over that well with most
females.

"Gals" seems to be a word that older women use more than younger women
do.  Older women "go out with the gals" when they are not "going out
with the girls", but younger women seem to go out with the guys.  Some
of the guys the younger women go out with are female.

Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
the other one was clerk in a store who ask "Can I help you guys?".
It's not rude, but it is a bit off-putting.  
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Tony Cooper - Orlando, Florida

HVS - 17 Feb 2010 22:35 GMT
On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote

> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as
> "guys".

ObAEU and Oy.  "addressed my wife and I as..."?  Really, Tony.

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CanEng and BrEng, indiscriminately mixed

Farmer Giles - 17 Feb 2010 23:45 GMT
> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>
>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as
>> "guys".
>
> ObAEU and Oy.  "addressed my wife and I as..."?  Really, Tony.

You're being very harsh, we all make the odd slip now and again. ;-)

In fact, in many parts of rural England that would be considered the
accepted construction.

"Ee said to I"
"I said to ee", etc.

The accusative case still hasn't reached some of those outlying areas.
Except for the third person singular feminine, where it's usually the other
way round!

"Er thinks er's clever, but er's as daft as a brush, the missus".
mm - 18 Feb 2010 17:08 GMT
>> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>>
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>
>You're being very harsh, we all make the odd slip now and again. ;-)

You think Oy and Really are very harsh?  What would be mild?

>In fact, in many parts of rural England that would be considered the
>accepted construction.
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>
>"Er thinks er's clever, but er's as daft as a brush, the missus".

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Farmer Giles - 18 Feb 2010 17:19 GMT
>>> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>>>
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>
> You think Oy and Really are very harsh?  What would be mild?

It was meant to be slightly ironic.
HVS - 18 Feb 2010 17:39 GMT
On 18 Feb 2010, Farmer Giles wrote

>>>> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>>>>
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>
> It was meant to be slightly ironic.

I picked up on that -- them emoticon thingies *do* have a use,
sometimes....

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CanEng and BrEng, indiscriminately mixed

mm - 19 Feb 2010 01:52 GMT
>On 18 Feb 2010, Farmer Giles wrote
>
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>I picked up on that -- them emoticon thingies *do* have a use,
>sometimes....

I thought the smiley applied to the second clause.
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®óñ©  ©  ²°¹° - 18 Feb 2010 17:44 GMT
>>>> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>>>>
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>
>It was meant to be slightly ironic.

Mildly magnetic?

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Farmer Giles - 18 Feb 2010 18:06 GMT
>>>>> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>>>>>
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>
> Mildly magnetic?

Perhaps, with rustic overtones!
tony cooper - 18 Feb 2010 00:32 GMT
>On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>
>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as
>> "guys".
>
>ObAEU and Oy.  "addressed my wife and I as..."?  Really, Tony.

I'd apologize if it was a slip, but - fact is - I probably say it that
way 95% of the time.  
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Tony Cooper - Orlando, Florida

HVS - 18 Feb 2010 08:59 GMT
On 18 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote

>> On 17 Feb 2010, tony cooper wrote
>>
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> I'd apologize if it was a slip, but - fact is - I probably say
> it that way 95% of the time.  

I probably wouldn't even notice it outside of t'groops...

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GFH - 19 Feb 2010 13:30 GMT
> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
> the other one was clerk in a store who ask "Can I help you guys?".
> It's not rude, but it is a bit off-putting.  

Americans have become accustomed to the unisex meaning of "guys".

GFH
mm - 19 Feb 2010 13:35 GMT
>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
>> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
>GFH

Yes, it goes back at least to 1961, when I heard one girl call a bunch
of other girls "you guys".
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Dr Peter Young - 19 Feb 2010 13:41 GMT
>>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
>>> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>>
>>GFH

> Yes, it goes back at least to 1961, when I heard one girl call a bunch
> of other girls "you guys".

Or (and we've been here before) "youse guys".

With best wishes,

Peter.

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Bill McCray - 19 Feb 2010 15:13 GMT
>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
>> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
>> the other one was clerk in a store who ask "Can I help you guys?".
>> It's not rude, but it is a bit off-putting.
>
> Americans have become accustomed to the unisex meaning of "guys".

Maybe in the North, but less so in the South, although "guys" seems to
have made inroads into Kentucky in the past couple of years.  Servers
seem to say "you guys" a lot more now instead of "you all".  Calling me
and my wife "guys" still sounds very wrong to me.

Bill in Kentucky
®óñ©  ©  ²°¹° - 19 Feb 2010 15:30 GMT
>>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
>>> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>seem to say "you guys" a lot more now instead of "you all".  Calling me
>and my wife "guys" still sounds very wrong to me.

Canadians use that a lot (especially the new immigrants and
newly -coined citizens trying to bed in)

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mm - 21 Feb 2010 02:17 GMT
>>>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
>>>> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>Canadians use that a lot (especially the new immigrants and
>newly -coined citizens trying to bed in)

"trying to bed in"  ????
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John Ritson - 21 Feb 2010 08:45 GMT
>>>Maybe in the North, but less so in the South, although "guys" seems to
>>>have made inroads into Kentucky in the past couple of years.  Servers
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>"trying to bed in"  ????

From horticulture - flowers planted in a flower bed are "bedded in" when
they have established roots in their new location.

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Peter Duncanson (BrE) - 21 Feb 2010 11:02 GMT
>>>>Maybe in the North, but less so in the South, although "guys" seems to
>>>>have made inroads into Kentucky in the past couple of years.  Servers
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> From horticulture - flowers planted in a flower bed are "bedded in" when
>they have established roots in their new location.

I have always assumed that the origin is from a person becoming
comfortable in bed. The usages I have met are those described below.

http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/DictionaryResults.aspx?refid=1
861686018


   bed in
       
   transitive and intransitive verb
   Definition:
   
   settle into place: to settle something firmly into place, or fit
   firmly into place

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/bed+in

   bed in
   vb
   1. (Engineering / General Engineering) (preposition) Engineering to
   fit (parts) together accurately or (of parts) to be fitted together,
   either through machining or use, as in fitting a bearing to its
   shaft
   2. (preposition) to make or become settled and able to work
   efficiently in harmony

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mm - 21 Feb 2010 21:26 GMT
>>>>>Maybe in the North, but less so in the South, although "guys" seems to
>>>>>have made inroads into Kentucky in the past couple of years.  Servers
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>    2. (preposition) to make or become settled and able to work
>    efficiently in harmony

Well thanks.  I know the meaning even if maybe not the origin.
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Farmer Giles - 21 Feb 2010 11:07 GMT
>>>>> Twice yesterday a young female addressed my wife and I as "guys".  One
>>>>> was a waitress who asked us "What would you guys like to drink" and
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> "trying to bed in"  ????

An expression commonly used in England (not in the US?), although generally
not in regard to people.
 
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