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Frederick Williams - 20 Feb 2010 16:13 GMT
Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
liked.

or

Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much whom
they liked.

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Farmer Giles - 20 Feb 2010 16:42 GMT
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
> liked.
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> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much whom
> they liked.

Whom.
Frederick Williams - 20 Feb 2010 16:59 GMT
> > Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
> > liked.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Whom.

Thank you.  I thought it might be the second one.

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Glenn Knickerbocker - 20 Feb 2010 19:52 GMT
>Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much whom
>they liked.

The objective case is correct, but "whom" sets a pretty high register
nowadays.  It's a little jarring after those two highly informal phrases
right before it.  Also, I'd use "who(m)ever" in this context.

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BillJ - 20 Feb 2010 22:20 GMT
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much
> whom they liked.
The objective case is correct, but "whom" sets a
> pretty high register nowadays. It's a little jarring after those
> two highly informal phrases right before it. Also, I'd use
> "who(m)ever" in this context.



I hate to be a grammar bore, but I can't see any
reason to knock whom as being the preferred pronoun in that
particular sentence . Those who seek to dumb down the
language go after the use of objective case
pronouns in such cases like kittens after
cockroaches. Personally, I would defend the use of
'objectives' up to the hilt and to heck with everyone
else. Incidentally, as you say, 'whomever' in that
particular sentence is the correct form (not whom), but that could
be seen as being even more formal than 'whom'.

BillJ

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BillJ - 20 Feb 2010 22:20 GMT
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much
> whom they liked.
The objective case is correct, but "whom" sets a
> pretty high register nowadays. It's a little jarring after those
> two highly informal phrases right before it. Also, I'd use
> "who(m)ever" in this context.



I hate to be a grammar bore, but I can't see any
reason to knock whom as being the preferred pronoun in that
particular sentence . Those who seek to dumb down the
language go after the use of objective case
pronouns in such cases like kittens after
cockroaches. Personally, I would defend the use of
'objectives' up to the hilt and to heck with everyone
else. Incidentally, as you say, 'whomever' in that
particular sentence is the correct form (not whom), but that could
be seen as being even more formal than 'whom'.

BillJ

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Pete - 21 Feb 2010 04:06 GMT
>>Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much whom
>>they liked.
>
> The objective case is correct, but "whom" sets a pretty high register
> nowadays.  It's a little jarring after those two highly informal
> phrases right before it.  Also, I'd use "who(m)ever" in this context.

Google found a page - http://bible.cc/luke/20-18.htm - which compares
seventeen different versions of Luke 20:18.

In the King James Bible it's:

Whosoever shall fall upon that stone shall be broken; but on whomsoever
it shall fall, it will grind him to powder.

Eight of the translations use 'whomsoever' and two use 'whomever'. The
rest re-word it and use neither.

I've never heard 'whomever'. But I often hear and use 'whomsoever'.

Peter
Eric Walker - 21 Feb 2010 11:56 GMT
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
> liked.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much whom
> they liked.

A useful rule of thumb for guidance is to sort of turn the sentence
around and see whether he or him fits:

 Children of my class and generation liked whom/him.

It's usually easy enough to see how it needs to be turned to show what's
what (or who's who).

More formally, it is as has been noted: the case of the word is the
accusative ("objective").

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Frederick Williams - 21 Feb 2010 14:40 GMT
> > Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
> > liked.
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> It's usually easy enough to see how it needs to be turned to show what's
> what (or who's who).

Thank you.  That's handy.

> More formally, it is as has been noted: the case of the word is the
> accusative ("objective").

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Mxsmanic - 21 Feb 2010 16:18 GMT
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
> liked.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much whom
> they liked.

Actually, I'd be tempted to say "whomever." Otherwise whom is preferable to
who, although many people who disdain proper English in order to seem more hip
might object to this.

I always teach my ESL students the proper use of whom, but it's frustrating
when many ESL coursebooks ignore or even advise against making the
distinction.
Robert Lieblich - 22 Feb 2010 01:07 GMT
> > Children of my class and generation ran around with pretty much who they
> > liked.
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> when many ESL coursebooks ignore or even advise against making the
> distinction.

Usages change.  I'd expect to hear "whoever they liked" in speech.
You can call it right, or you can call it wrong.  You can even argue
with whether it's the most common usage of the four that have been
suggested on this thread; to my best recollection of my personal
experience, it is.  I think it's even most common in written informal
English.  If you're writing a constitution, use "whomever."  If you're
writing anything much less formal, use "whoever."

Frankly, I don't know which case (nominative or accusative0 is the
better choice here, and a good case can be made for either.  (For
those of you who insist that "whom" must be right because it always
has been, I can only suggest that you consider the first sentence of
mine in this thread.)  As a separate matter, I do think it would be
far better to use a form with -ever at the end, be it "whoever" or
"whomever."

Bob Lieblich
Whom is obviously of at least two minds about this
 
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