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Opinicus - 11 Mar 2010 09:10 GMT
I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
occurrence. Is that correct? Or is it just my take on the expression?

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mm - 11 Mar 2010 09:22 GMT
>I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
>to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
>occurrence. Is that correct? Or is it just my take on the expression?

Well, it's normally used only when it's fairly recent.  There is
little point in saying the late Abraham Lincoln, because if you don't
already know he's dead, you're too stupid to talk to.

Although it might be a clue that an Abe Lincoln other than the
president is being talked about.

If you don't read the news one day, it's easy not to know that someone
is dead.
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GFH - 11 Mar 2010 13:45 GMT
> On Thu, 11 Mar 2010 11:10:08 +0200, Opinicus
>
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> Although it might be a clue that an Abe Lincoln other than the
> president is being talked about.

"The late" does have a practical use.  A man who is named John
Jones, Jr. often drops the "Jr." upon the death of John Jones.  So
"John Jones and John Jones Jr." becomes "the late John Jones
and John Jones".

GFH
mm - 11 Mar 2010 17:16 GMT
>> On Thu, 11 Mar 2010 11:10:08 +0200, Opinicus
>>
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>"John Jones and John Jones Jr." becomes "the late John Jones
>and John Jones".

And does John Jones III become John Jones Jr?

Doesn't this cause loads of problems for mortgages, car loans, deeds,
contracts, criminal charges, law suits, affidavits, witness testimony
etc?  For example, no one will know if an affidavit that refers to one
of them uses the ranking at the time the affidavit was made, the name
that the person making the statement was used all his life, was using
at the time, who may not have known about the death of his father, or
may not have felt such a death changed the other person's name, etc.
??

>GFH

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®óñ©  ©  ²°¹° - 11 Mar 2010 19:55 GMT
>And does John Jones III become John Jones Jr?

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Eric Walker - 12 Mar 2010 04:11 GMT
[...]

> And does John Jones III become John Jones Jr?

Wikipedia tells us possibly more than many want to know:

There is no hard-and-fast rule over what happens to suffixes when the
most senior of the name dies: whether the men retain their titles, or  
they all "move up" one.  Neither tradition nor etiquette provides a
definitive answer (etiquette expert Judith Martin, for example, believes
they should all move up, but most agree that this is up to the
individual families).  Upon the death of John Smith Sr., his son, John
Smith, Jr. may decide to style himself John Smith Sr. (causing confusion
if his widowed mother and his wife both use the formal style Mrs. John
Smith, Sr., and necessitating that his son and grandson change their
titles as well) or he may remain John Smith, Jr. for the rest of his
lifetime.  One effect of moving up one is that it eliminates the
extension of Roman numerals over the generations: i.e., a John Smith
III, IV, and V.  A disadvantage is that it may cause confusion with
respect to birth certificates, credit cards, and the like.  In practice
it is quite uncommon for families to go beyond "III" in naming children,
although there are notable exceptions; the legal name of Tom Cruise, for
instance, is actually Thomas Cruise Mapother IV, and the oldest sons of
U.S. Senator Jay Rockefeller (legal name John Davison Rockefeller IV)
and former Major League Baseball pitcher Orel Hershiser both have "IV"
as their suffix.  Former boxer George Foreman named his five sons after
himself: George Edward Foreman II through VI.

In cases where a child is given the same name as a relative who is not
the child's mother or father, it is considered correct to give the child
a numerical suffix.  For example, a child named John William Scott,
after his uncle John William Scott, would properly be considered John
William Scott II, as opposed to "Junior." Junior is not used because, in
this example, John William Scott is not the child of John William Scott,
senior.  If John William Scott II were to have a son, he could then be
named John William Scott III or John William Scott, Jr., depending upon
the family.  While it is not technically the social norm to use "II" in
place of "junior" for children born directly to a same named parent,
there is no social rule against the usage of "II" instead of "junior"
for a same named child.  Often, II is used by families who want to avoid
having their children referred to as "junior" as a nickname.

I agree with the Wikipedian who remarked on the "Discussion" page that
it's a hopeless mess.

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mm - 12 Mar 2010 06:00 GMT
>[...]
>
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> III, IV, and V.  A disadvantage is that it may cause confusion with
> respect to birth certificates, credit cards, and the like.  In practice

I'm glad others have noticed these problems.  The post I replied to
was not the first thing I've read about this, but it was the first
place I could ask questions.  

> it is quite uncommon for families to go beyond "III" in naming children,
> although there are notable exceptions; the legal name of Tom Cruise, for
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> senior.  If John William Scott II were to have a son, he could then be
> named John William Scott III or John William Scott, Jr.,

Being Jr. after a father who is II would drive a lot of people and
onlookers bananas.

> depending upon
> the family.  While it is not technically the social norm to use "II" in
> place of "junior" for children born directly to a same named parent,
> there is no social rule against the usage of "II" instead of "junior"
> for a same named child.  Often, II is used by families who want to avoid
> having their children referred to as "junior" as a nickname.

Like Jim Anderson's son on Father Knows Best.   However, didn't Junior
go on to invent the window?

>I agree with the Wikipedian who remarked on the "Discussion" page that
>it's a hopeless mess.

Indeed.  Thanks.
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Damaeus - 11 Mar 2010 21:27 GMT
Reading from news:alt.english.usage,
GFH <georgeh@ankerstein.org> posted:

> "The late" does have a practical use.  A man who is named John
> Jones, Jr. often drops the "Jr." upon the death of John Jones.  So
> "John Jones and John Jones Jr." becomes "the late John Jones
> and John Jones".

Often?  Maybe they do sometimes, if they don't know any better.  My name
has been changed three times in my life, so far.  I was born with one
name, and it was changed when I was 2 years old and adopted into a family
whose head of household made me a "Jr." of himself.  I later changed my
name to something of my own choosing since I thought his name sucked I
didn't like any of them for myself.  No offense to him.  He likes his
name.  But had I kept the name my adoptive parents gave me, I would have
never dropped the "Jr." off my name.

Damaeus
Damaeus - 11 Mar 2010 21:23 GMT
Reading from news:alt.english.usage,
mm <NOPSAMmm2005@bigfoot.com> posted:

> >I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
> >to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> Although it might be a clue that an Abe Lincoln other than the
> president is being talked about.

Do people actually name their kids like that?  I mean, if someone is
ignorant, I can understand.  But if someone with the last name of Lincoln
names their kid Abraham, it seems a bit pretentious if they're aware that
one of the most commonly-known presidents had that name.  It's not that I
think Abraham Lincoln was a "great man"; I wasn't alive in that time to
make that judgment for myself.  I do see that the history books write
about the man as if he was incapable of making mistakes, and people talk
about him as if he should be revered.  I don't think the name should be
trademarked or anything.  I just know the perception of many seems to be
that if your last name is Presley, you'd be best not to name your kid
Elvis.  Maybe I'm projecting my own view and assuming others share it.

Damaeus
mm - 11 Mar 2010 23:08 GMT
>Reading from news:alt.english.usage,
>mm <NOPSAMmm2005@bigfoot.com> posted:
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>
>Damaeus

I've never come across anyone named Abe Lincoln, other than the famous
one, and I'm not saying there are any.  It was just an example.

But there are 1) people who are famous but not to everyone.
2) people who are famous after they are 20 or after they are 60, but
children in other families are given the same name before the famous
ones become famous.
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Damaeus - 12 Mar 2010 00:00 GMT
Reading from news:alt.english.usage,
mm <NOPSAMmm2005@bigfoot.com> posted:

> But there are 1) people who are famous but not to everyone.
> 2) people who are famous after they are 20 or after they are 60, but
> children in other families are given the same name before the famous
> ones become famous.

Yeah, those I understand.  There are many "Michael Jacksons" in the world,
and some of them are even whiter than the famous one.

Damaeus
Bill McCray - 12 Mar 2010 16:02 GMT
My father was named for his uncle, and I was named for my father.  My birth
certificate shows me as William Roy McCray III.  At some point, my father
started calling himself "Sr.", so I switched to "Jr.".

Probably when I was in college, I stopped using the "Jr."  My father
noticed that at some point and said that I should be using "Jr." for legal
matters.  The IRS might confuse us, he suggested.

I replied that I was sure that there were other William Roy McCrays in the
country and if the IRS couldn't differentiate between William Roy McCray in
a city in Kentucky with one Social Security Number and William Roy McCray
in a city in Virginia with another number, "Jr." probably wouldn't help
them.

He conceded.

Bill, still in Kentucky
John Varela - 13 Mar 2010 17:28 GMT
> I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
> to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
> occurrence. Is that correct? Or is it just my take on the expression?

I don't think "the late" is a euphemism.

A friend's obituary in today's newspaper says, "On Wednesday, March
10, 2010 of Fairfax, VA. Husband of Jean <lastname> and the late
Elizabeth A. <lastname>, father of... etc."

Elizabeth didn't die fairly recently, but since her children are
about to be named she should be included. How would you reword this
obituary without using "the late"?

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®óñ©  ©  ²°¹° - 13 Mar 2010 18:00 GMT
>> I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
>> to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>about to be named she should be included. How would you reword this
>obituary without using "the late"?

Dead = Late

Late = Dead

This is Life

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Bill McCray - 13 Mar 2010 20:49 GMT
On Sat, 13 Mar 2010 18:00:00 +0000, ®óñ© © ²°¹° wrote:

>>> I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
>>> to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> Late = Dead

Is that why people don't get to appointments on time?

Bill in Kentucky
John Varela - 14 Mar 2010 01:38 GMT
On Sat, 13 Mar 2010 18:00:00 UTC, «¾±®  ®   <ron@spamall.com>
wrote:

> >> I have an instinctive feeling that the euphemism "the late" (referring
> >> to someone who's dead) implies that the death is a fairly recent
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> This is Life

Oh, that's deep.

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