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bealoid - 30 Dec 2006 19:27 GMT
"He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit argumentative
and grumpy".

What is a 'chip', and why is it on someone's shoulder?
Skitt - 30 Dec 2006 19:54 GMT
> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
> argumentative and grumpy".
>
> What is a 'chip', and why is it on someone's shoulder?

He has a chip on his shoulder daring you to knock it off.  He could then
deck you for doing that.
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mike.j.harvey@gmail.com - 30 Dec 2006 19:57 GMT
> > "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
> > argumentative and grumpy".
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> He has a chip on his shoulder daring you to knock it off.  He could then
> deck you for doing that.

A wood chip.
John Dean - 31 Dec 2006 00:02 GMT
>>> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
>>> argumentative and grumpy".
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> A wood chip.

How much wood would a wood chip chip if a ...
No, I can't, I'm going to lie down.
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tinwhistler - 30 Dec 2006 22:19 GMT
[snip]
> > What is a 'chip', and why is it on someone's shoulder?
>
> He has a chip on his shoulder daring you to knock it off.  He could then
> deck you for doing that. [snip]

A 1996 posting at this newsgroup:

http://groups.google.com/group/alt.usage.english/browse_frm/thread/6927fd2fa1e93
83d/514768c499e1a5f8?lnk=gst&q=chip+on+shoulder&rnum=2#514768c499e1a5f8


[excerpt:]

>From the online OED:

  1830 Long Isl. Tel. (Hempstead, N.Y.) 20 May 3/5 When two churlish
  boys were determined to fight, a chip would be placed on the
  shoulder of one, and the other demanded to knock it off at his
  peril.

This is in an entry for "chip".

The discussion preceding it says:

  a chip on one's shoulder (orig. U.S.), carried as a challenge to
  others (see earlier quots.); hence, a display of defiance or
  ill-humour; an unforgotten grievance; a sense of inferiority
  characterized by a quickness to take offence.

Adrian Pepper.  [end excerpt]

Aloha ~~~  Ozzie Maland ~~~ San Diego
Mike Lyle - 30 Dec 2006 22:49 GMT
> [snip]
> > > What is a 'chip', and why is it on someone's shoulder?
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>    ill-humour; an unforgotten grievance; a sense of inferiority
>    characterized by a quickness to take offence.

Has anybody seen the full original 1830 article? I'd like to know the
context, as it seems a rather unlikely custom. If the piece quoted is
merely an explanation of the expression, I beg leave to suspect it of
being a folk-etymology. If it is only an attempt to explain an idiom, I
offer a slightly more complex and speculative folk-etymology of my own.

Kids have plenty of sayings which by the rules of rough play allow
moderate violence. "Do you collect stamps?" or "How's your bad foot?"
said as you stamp on another's foot. "How's your back, Jack?" asked as
you slap the victim enthusiastically between the shoulder-blades. We
had a thing involving the pretence that the other had something on his
tie: you "solicitously" rubbed a finger down his tie in such a way that
it flicked up into his face.

So here's my conjecture, FWIW. Boy A whacks boy B on the shoulder; A
says "What did you do that for?" and B says "I was just brushing a chip
off your shoulder." Ha, ha. Thence, we could move to a response to a
perceived attack or slight, "Don't get at me! I haven't got a chip on
my shoulder!" Thence, only slightly illogically, "He's got a chip on
his shoulder." There need never have been a real chip: and if there
was, why did the custom die out?

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tinwhistler - 31 Dec 2006 00:12 GMT
[snip]
> So here's my conjecture, FWIW. Boy A whacks boy B on the shoulder; A
> says "What did you do that for?" and B says "I was just brushing a chip
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> his shoulder." There need never have been a real chip: and if there
> was, why did the custom die out?
[snip]

And my conjecture for the origin of "He's got a bug up his arse" goes
like this:  Lord Nelson asked for his red trousers when advised that
there were four French frigates on the horizon.  After explaining that
there might be bloodshed and he didn't want sailors to over-react to
the sight of blood on his pants, he was advised that there were
forty-four French frigates on the horizon.  The admiral then asked for
brown pants, but disguised his real motive for so asking by saying he
had a bug up his arse.

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trio@euronet.nl - 01 Jan 2007 17:52 GMT
> > >From the online OED:
> >
> >    1830 Long Isl. Tel. (Hempstead, N.Y.) 20 May 3/5 When two churlish
> >    boys were determined to fight, a chip would be placed on the
> >    shoulder of one, and the other demanded to knock it off at his
> >    peril.

> Has anybody seen the full original 1830 article? I'd like to know the
> context, as it seems a rather unlikely custom. If the piece quoted is
> merely an explanation of the expression, I beg leave to suspect it of
> being a folk-etymology. If it is only an attempt to explain an idiom, I
> offer a slightly more complex and speculative folk-etymology of my own.

I think you were skeptical last time this was discussed, or someone
was. I've seen it described in enough 19th century writing to have no
doubt it was an actual custom.

A real advantage to this practice was that it excused both parties from
the sin of "starting it" or taking the first punch. The one who put the
chip on his own shoulder could say that he didn't swing first, the
other guy did who knocked off the chip. The guy who knocked off the
chip could say he didn't start it, he just knocked on the chip, it was
the first guy who responded after that with a real blow.

> Kids have plenty of sayings which by the rules of rough play allow
> moderate violence. "Do you collect stamps?" or "How's your bad foot?"
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> tie: you "solicitously" rubbed a finger down his tie in such a way that
> it flicked up into his face.

If you're thinking that the chip on the shoulder must belong to this
sort of pain-inducing action, no wonder you're skeptical. It doesn't
fit. It's a symbolic gesture without any pain.

> So here's my conjecture, FWIW. Boy A whacks boy B on the shoulder; A
> says "What did you do that for?" and B says "I was just brushing a chip
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> his shoulder." There need never have been a real chip: and if there
> was, why did the custom die out?

Sorry, your adding a "whack" and a mythical chip is not the true story.
I'm on the road so I can't research things so easily, but I suspect
there are half-a-dozen works of literature on line that would describe
the true interchange (as described in the 1830 lines).

As to implying a custom must never have existed if no one can explain
why it died out, well...

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Frank ess - 01 Jan 2007 21:32 GMT
>>>> From the online OED:
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 61 lines]
> explain
> why it died out, well...

"Go get the axe, there's a fly on Grannie's ear .. "

A song I think I remember hearing in the late Forties or early
Fifties.

I dunno. It just seemed to fit.

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Pat Durkin - 01 Jan 2007 21:44 GMT
>>>>> From the online OED:
>>>>
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>>> idiom, I offer a slightly more complex and speculative
>>> folk-etymology of my own.

>>> So here's my conjecture, FWIW. Boy A whacks boy B on the shoulder; A
>>> says "What did you do that for?" and B says "I was just brushing a
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> I dunno. It just seemed to fit.

Oh, yes.  "Peeking through the knothole on Grandpa's wooden leg."

I always assumed that the chip-on-the-shoulder thing originated on the
frontier of the late 1700's or early 1800s, but that assumption is based
on a film.  I saw it enacted in "Abe Lincoln in Illinois", if I am not
mistaken.  My memory says it was when "Abe the rail-splitter" tried to
avoid a fight by replying to the chip/shoulder challenge by daring the
belligerent one to hold an axe at arm's length, a feat which Abe then
demonstrated.  But I may have two or three Lincoln stories mixed, and I
certainly can't recall.  Maybe it was Paul Bunyan and it was one of
Babe's chips.
Mike Lyle - 01 Jan 2007 23:01 GMT
> > > >From the online OED:
> > >
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> was. I've seen it described in enough 19th century writing to have no
> doubt it was an actual custom.

That's what we need: contemporary accounts independent of one another;
and only the full text of the 1830 article can tell us that author's
intentions in writing it or his authority for doing so. And I want to
know who puts the chip on the boy's shoulder: it's all in the passive
voice. I see that the two boys are already, in the 1830 account,
determined to fight anyway: so what's the ritual about? It's easy
enough to devise an explanation of what's going on; but we haven't been
given one. As I said, my speculation was provisional: I'll be glad to
see the refs which knock out the proviso.
[...]
> > So here's my conjecture, FWIW. Boy A whacks boy B on the shoulder; A
> > says "What did you do that for?" and B says "I was just brushing a chip
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> there are half-a-dozen works of literature on line that would describe
> the true interchange (as described in the 1830 lines).

Well, yes. But we do need to _see_ the true story if it's out there.
The Lincoln incident could be telling; I once owned a copy of _From Log
Cabin. . ._ but I never read it.

> As to implying a custom must never have existed if no one can explain
> why it died out, well...

As I said, I was working from a hypothetical position that the 1830
quotation might turn out to be explanatory. If we found it represented
a folk-etymology, then we _would_ need to question why the custom had
already passed into legend by that date, or whether it had existed
precisely as described. Folkways are often unreliably, even if
confidently, attested. This one sounds strange to me, especially since
I can't just now think of any close analogues.

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John Dean - 02 Jan 2007 01:28 GMT
>>>>> From the online OED:
>>>>
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
> glad to see the refs which knock out the proviso.
> [...]

Amplified a little by M. Quinion:
http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-chi1.htm

"It is American, first recorded in the Long Island Telegraph for 20 May
1830: "When two churlish boys were determined to fight, a chip would be
placed on the shoulder of one, and the other demanded to knock it off at his
peril". The same idea is mentioned in the issue of The Onondaga Standard of
Syracuse, New York, for 8 December the same year: "'He waylay me,' said I,
'the mean sneaking fellow-I am only afraid that he will sue me for damages.
Oh! if I only could get him to knock a chip off my shoulder, and so get
round the law, I would give him one of the soundest thrashings he ever had.'"
"

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 04 Jan 2007 00:38 GMT
>> > > >From the online OED:
>> > >
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> haven't been given one. As I said, my speculation was provisional:
> I'll be glad to see the refs which knock out the proviso.

It's always been pretty clear to me that the one making the dare is
the one who puts the chip on his own shoulder.  The closest I can get
to an explicit statement of this from a nineteenth century source is

   If a minister will keep himself familiar with the profoundest
   works on Logic and Psychology, familiar with theological treatises
   like those of Calvin, and Zwingle, and Melanethon, and Cudworth,
   and Julius Müller, and Dorner, familiar with the idioms and genius
   of the Hebrew language and peculiarities of the Aramæan Greek, he
   will have as little inclination as he will find time to stand at
   the corners of the streets, and put a chip on his shoulder, and
   keep his fist clenched for a fight.

                 Edwards A. Parks, "What is the Aim of a Theological
                 Education", _The National Preacher_, October, 1865.

This brings up a point that I haven't seen raised here yet.  Namely,
that while the ritual was a specific incident, in which one person
challenged another or a group, to say that someone "has a chip on his
shoulder" means that he's permanently in that state, always looking
for a fight.  As in

   The speaker spoke of our foreign policy, and while he did not
   admire the snarlishness of young Jonathan that made him place a
   chip on his shoulder and dare the world to knock it of [sic], he
   was in favor of a policy that, while it would submit to nothing
   wrong would give justice to all.

                 _Brooklyn Daily Eagle_, 12/19/1856

   To and fro over the continent moves Father Hecker, defiantly
   balancing upon his shoulder the fateful chip, which any careless
   jostle may throw down.  The conflict is imminent.

                 _Putnam's Magazine_, January, 1869

   This man was Theodore Parker, a born controversialist, who had the
   challenging chip always on his shoulder, which he invited both his
   Unitarian and his orthodox brethren to knock off.  There never was
   a man who more gloried in a fight.

                 _The First Century of the Republic_, 1876

The earliest mention I can find is from 1835, but the author takes the
ritual (whatever it might have been) for granted and uses it to
explain a similar custom:

   I must not forget to tell you that the only vestige of ancient
   chivalry I have seen in all Virginia, occurred at Martinsburg.
   The day being warm, we were sitting, probably to the number of
   twenty, on benches, at the shady side of the hotel, fronting on
   one of the principal streets, when a man rode furiously by on
   horseback, and swore "he'd be d----d if he could not _lick_ any
   man who dared to crook his elbow at him."  This, it seems, is
   equivalent to throwing the glove in days of yore, or to the boyish
   custom of knocking a chip off the shoulder...

                  James Paulding, _Letters from the South_, 1835

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tinwhistler - 04 Jan 2007 01:12 GMT
[snip]

> It's always been pretty clear to me that the one making the dare is
> the one who puts the chip on his own shoulder.  The closest I can get
> to an explicit statement of this from a nineteenth century source is
[snip]

Another bit of fine researching -- well done!  A thought that occurred
to me was the possible linkage of this defiance custom and the
expression, "put up or shut up."  Possibly, the latter was telling
someone to put up a chip on their shoulder, or shut up -- but this is
wild conjecturing without some shred of evidence.

Aloha ~~~ Ozzie Maland ~~~ San Diego
Robert Bannister - 04 Jan 2007 22:13 GMT
> [snip]
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Another bit of fine researching -- well done!

I was going to say the same thing. Those quotes were pretty convincing,
and reminded me that when I was a lot younger, the expression was
usually "he's got a permanent chip on his shoulder" or some variation on
"permanent", like "always". Today, we seem to have removed that aspect,
which is probably why the saying appears more mystifying than it
actually is.
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Mike Lyle - 04 Jan 2007 19:32 GMT
> >> > > >From the online OED:
> >> > >
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
> It's always been pretty clear to me that the one making the dare is
> the one who puts the chip on his own shoulder.

So we assume, given the later references. The 1830 quotation may just
be rather poor writing (I do wish people weren't so fond of the passive
voice); but if it isn't, then something else is going on. I want to be
clear that I'm merely speculating; but that quotation, in isolation, is
consistent with more than one interpretation. That, in part, is why I
wonder if it's a garbled account, or only a guess, or partial guess, at
the origin of an expression which was as baffling in 1830 as it is now.

> The closest I can get
> to an explicit statement of this from a nineteenth century source is
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>                   Edwards A. Parks, "What is the Aim of a Theological
>                   Education", _The National Preacher_, October, 1865.

> This brings up a point that I haven't seen raised here yet.  Namely,
> that while the ritual was a specific incident, in which one person
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>                   _Brooklyn Daily Eagle_, 12/19/1856
[...]

That's why I suggested some sort of evolution in the idiom when I first
raised my doubts. The evidence we have so far is pretty spongy. I
wouldn't suggest that these writers may well have followed a tradition
uncritically (as writers often enough do) if I hadn't found the
earliest reference we have a little puzzling.

> The earliest mention I can find is from 1835, but the author takes the
> ritual (whatever it might have been) for granted and uses it to
> explain a similar custom:
[...]

I'm querying the taking for granted, of course. Taken for granted
because everybody knew about it, or only because everybody knew that
somebody had said it? (I'm searching my memory for similar cases; I
know they abound, but all I can think of just now is the oft- repeated
literary belief that burning apple logs smell particularly nice. Well,
I tried it once, and in my single experience they smell particularly
disgusting.)

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 04 Jan 2007 21:23 GMT
>> >> > > >From the online OED:
>> >> > >
[quoted text clipped - 36 lines]
> partial guess, at the origin of an expression which was as baffling
> in 1830 as it is now.

I'm not sure what would convince you, short, perhaps, of a diary
entry.  And even that might be problemmatic.  By 1856

>>     The speaker spoke of our foreign policy, and while he did not
>>     admire the snarlishness of young Jonathan that made him place a
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>>
>>                   _Brooklyn Daily Eagle_, 12/19/1856

people clearly had the notion that it was the one making the dare who
put the chip on his shoulder.  In 1830 and 1835, two different authors
were confident that people were familiar with the ritual, but if by
then it had already been subject to folk etymology then you could make
the argument that boys were putting chips on their shoulders in
immitation of the (misunderstood) saying.

> That's why I suggested some sort of evolution in the idiom when I first
> raised my doubts. The evidence we have so far is pretty spongy. I
> wouldn't suggest that these writers may well have followed a tradition
> uncritically (as writers often enough do) if I hadn't found the
> earliest reference we have a little puzzling.

That's because the earliest references assumed that the practice was
common and known to the readers.

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Mike Lyle - 04 Jan 2007 21:55 GMT
[...]
> >> It's always been pretty clear to me that the one making the dare is
> >> the one who puts the chip on his own shoulder.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> I'm not sure what would convince you, short, perhaps, of a diary
> entry.

I'm in grave peril of making a mountain out of a molehill here. I'd
happily buy a suitable diary entry: we haven't yet got a single literal
account of the type "Joe put a chip on his shoulder and Jack knocked it
off to start a fight". But, as I said at the git-go, seeing the full
1830 text would probably remove my suspicions.

> And even that might be problemmatic.  By 1856
>
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> That's because the earliest references assumed that the practice was
> common and known to the readers.

Again, I really don't want to make a mountain out of what may not even
be a molehill. It's just that it seems a bizarre custom, and assuming a
practice is known to one's readers isn't the same as knowing it for
oneself. Writers can be a flaky crowd, and "urban" myths can pick up a
lot of momentum in a very short time. You try and convince people in
Britain that the City of Birmingham didn't actually replace Christmas
with something called "Winterval".

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 04 Jan 2007 22:30 GMT
> Again, I really don't want to make a mountain out of what may not even
> be a molehill. It's just that it seems a bizarre custom,

No more so than "throwing down the gauntlet" or drawing a line in the
sand.  It's actually a rather nice protocol for issuing a public
challenge.  Pieces of wood being, presumably, readily at hand, the one
issuing the challenge is unambiguously doing so (since there'd be no
other reason to put a chip on his shoulder) and the one knocking it
off is publicly and clearly accepting the challenge (or, equally
clearly, refusing it), since there would be no reason to walk over to
someone and knock something off their shoulder.  Thus when the fight
started, witnesses could all be sure that it was agreed to by both
parties.

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Mike Lyle - 04 Jan 2007 23:26 GMT
> > Again, I really don't want to make a mountain out of what may not even
> > be a molehill. It's just that it seems a bizarre custom,
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> started, witnesses could all be sure that it was agreed to by both
> parties.

No doubt. But ordinary fights, even if premeditated, rarely seem to
start in such ritualised ways, so I'd still like to see a description
of it actually happening: and the search doesn't look promising, in
spite of your impressive findings.

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 05 Jan 2007 01:02 GMT
>> > Again, I really don't want to make a mountain out of what may not
>> > even be a molehill. It's just that it seems a bizarre custom,
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> No doubt. But ordinary fights, even if premeditated, rarely seem to
> start in such ritualised ways,

In my experience they do, even if the challenge is only a verbal "Say
that again" or "Come over here and say that".  I haven't seen the chip
on the shoulder (nor, for that matter, throwing down a glove), but I
have seen kids draw a line in the dirt and dare others to cross it.

> so I'd still like to see a description of it actually happening: and
> the search doesn't look promising, in spite of your impressive
> findings.

I'm a bit confused as to what you're questioning.  Is it that the
ritual occurred or that it was the source of (and not based on) the
saying?  I would have thought that there was sufficient evidence, at
least in fictional reminiscences and biographies that the ritual did,
indeed, exist.  For example, in John Fitzgerald's autobiographical
children's book _The Great Brain_, set in 1896 Utah,

   Tom bent over and picked up a piece of wood which he placed on his
   shoulder.  "You are going to have to fight me," he said, daring
   Sammy to knock the chip of wood off and start a fight.

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Robin Bignall - 05 Jan 2007 21:55 GMT
>>> > Again, I really don't want to make a mountain out of what may not
>>> > even be a molehill. It's just that it seems a bizarre custom,
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>on the shoulder (nor, for that matter, throwing down a glove), but I
>have seen kids draw a line in the dirt and dare others to cross it.

That reminds me of the fight in "The Searchers" where Wayne and
Jeffrey Hunter return from one of their trips to find the latter's
girlfriend about to marry someone else.  Before starting, one of them
places a log of wood on the floor and the other has to step over it to
start the fight.
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Mike Lyle - 05 Jan 2007 23:11 GMT
[...]
> > No doubt. But ordinary fights, even if premeditated, rarely seem to
> > start in such ritualised ways,
>
> In my experience they do, even if the challenge is only a verbal "Say
> that again" or "Come over here and say that".

That really feels different to me. I think because it's a fairly
ordinary use of language, not a ritual folkway using material objects.

> I haven't seen the chip
> on the shoulder (nor, for that matter, throwing down a glove), but I
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> ritual occurred or that it was the source of (and not based on) the
> saying?

As I keep saying, I didn't want to make a mountain out of a molehill. I
just didn't feel comfortable with OED's out-of-context 1830 quotation,
and wondered if it was a description or an explanation. If the latter,
I further wondered if it might be a folk etymology for the saying. If
the ritual had never actually existed, then it couldn't have been the
source of the saying.

> I would have thought that there was sufficient evidence, at
> least in fictional reminiscences and biographies that the ritual did,
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>     shoulder.  "You are going to have to fight me," he said, daring
>     Sammy to knock the chip of wood off and start a fight.

At last! Unless that's been quoted before, it's the first actual
example we've seen in this thread: that it's autobiographical makes it
all the more useful. That, as I also said, is the kind of thing I
needed to convince me that the explanation was genuine. All the other
examples have been metaphorical uses of the expression, and therefore
consistent with the explanation being a mere myth.

Phew!

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 05 Jan 2007 23:42 GMT
> [...]
>> > No doubt. But ordinary fights, even if premeditated, rarely seem
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> ordinary use of language, not a ritual folkway using material
> objects.

I'd say that it's precisely the same thing.  It's not an "ordinary use
of language" to instruct someone to move toward you and repeat
something so that you will feel justified in starting a fight.  It's
an ritualized and understood challenge, laying out the terms by which
the one challenged can publicly demonstrate that he accepts or refuses
the challenge.  Some of these are verbal, others physical.  Knights
did, as I understand it, really throw down their gauntlets in
challenge.  Boys really did (and do) draw lines in the dirt.  That
putting a chip on your shoulder makes such a good challenge and is
such an otherwise silly thing to do make it, to my mind, all the more
likely that this was the origin of the phrase.

>> I'm a bit confused as to what you're questioning.  Is it that the
>> ritual occurred or that it was the source of (and not based on) the
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> etymology for the saying. If the ritual had never actually existed,
> then it couldn't have been the source of the saying.

But by the 1835 quotation I dug up (repeated below), just five years
later, the practice was being used to *explain* another, assumed
unfamiliar custom.  Crooking one's elbow was like throwing down a
glove or knocking a chip off the shoulder.  This is 20 years before we
start seeing metaphorical uses of people going around with chips on
their shoulders.

>> I would have thought that there was sufficient evidence, at
>> least in fictional reminiscences and biographies that the ritual did,
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> needed to convince me that the explanation was genuine. All the other
> examples have been metaphorical uses of the expression,

Except for my 1835 quote:

   I must not forget to tell you that the only vestige of ancient
   chivalry I have seen in all Virginia, occurred at Martinsburg.
   The day being warm, we were sitting, probably to the number of
   twenty, on benches, at the shady side of the hotel, fronting on
   one of the principal streets, when a man rode furiously by on
   horseback, and swore "he'd be d----d if he could not _lick_ any
   man who dared to crook his elbow at him."  This, it seems, is
   equivalent to throwing the glove in days of yore, or to the boyish
   custom of knocking a chip off the shoulder...

                  James Paulding, _Letters from the South_, 1835

> and therefore consistent with the explanation being a mere myth.

But, to play devil's advocate, even if taken at face value, all this
shows is that 40 (or perhaps 60) years after adults used the phrase,
explaining that this is something that kids do, some kids actually did
it.

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Mike Lyle - 05 Jan 2007 23:49 GMT
[...]
> But, to play devil's advocate, even if taken at face value, all this
> shows is that 40 (or perhaps 60) years after adults used the phrase,
> explaining that this is something that kids do, some kids actually did
> it.

I thought _I_ was doing the Devil's advocate job here. Even so, I
wasn't prepared to advance that idea, though it had crossed my mind.

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Donna Richoux - 06 Jan 2007 01:29 GMT
> > I would have thought that there was sufficient evidence, at
> > least in fictional reminiscences and biographies that the ritual did,
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> Phew!

You didn't look for solid evidence yourself, did you? A Google search on
"placed a chip on his shoulder" turns up two vivid portrayals of the
literal custom.

http://www.mootgame.com/misc/ragged_edges.html

Life on the Ragged Edges:
A Memoir by James Arthur Steeves (1908-1985)
Published posthumously 1999
[Boyhood was in New Brunswick]

    After that I headed for school; it was about a half
    a mile from home. When I got there,  I saw a large
    crowd of boys outside the side entrance of Edith
    Cavel. A friend of mine stepped out of this crowd
    and approached me. He said, "The bully-boy is
    telling all the others what he is going to do to
    you."
      I had forgotten about Sunday's argument, but I guess
    I must have been as eager as he was for a showdown,
    because I quickly pushed my way through his
    supporters and faced him. One of his chums placed a
    chip on his shoulder for me to knock off. As I
    reached forward to tap it off his shoulder, he
    slugged me, blackening my right eye and knocking me
    to the ground - I never let that trick fool me again.
    He had hit me really hard.
      [Snip blow-by-blow description of remainder of fight.]

And:

http://docsouth.unc.edu/southlit/dixon/dixon.html

The Traitor:
A Story of the Fall of the Invisible Empire:
Dixon, Thomas, 1864-1946
New York, Doubleday, Page & Company, 1907

    John Graham sprang to his feet with a muttered oath
    of surprise in time to see Billy square himself in
    front of the speaker and say:
     
            "If you think the Southern people a race of
    cowards and dastards come down off that platform and
    knock this chip off my shoulder, you old
    white-livered cur!"
     
            He placed a chip on his shoulder and
    strutted before Larkin. The Carpetbagger was too
    astonished to reply. He gazed at the boy in
    confusion and muttered an inarticulate protest.
     
            Billy jumped on the platform and walked
    around him like a game bantam, crying:
     
            "Knock it off--d----you! knock it off! If  
    you want to test it! A dozen of my friends are out
    there, yours all around you, a hundred to one, but
    knock it off! knock it off!"
     
            John Graham had reached the platform by this
    time, seized Billy and led him back through the
    crowd to Mrs. Wilson who was in hysterics, the boys
    vainly trying to quiet her.

These stories are exactly what I assured you a few days ago could be
easily found in US literature. (One hit I found implied it was an Irish
custom as well.)

Among other results I found, I will mention here only that the respected
American Dialect Society put in its journal:

    Dialect Notes ... - Page 177
    by American Dialect Society - 1896
    chip on one's shoulder. One who seeks a quarrel is
    said to go about with a chip on  his shoulder,
    daring others to knock it off. [1840- 1901.]  
    1860 Let a boy at school put a chip on his head, and
    ell another that he must not knock it off, and he
    will be sure to do it.

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Mike Lyle - 06 Jan 2007 17:51 GMT
[...]
> > all the more useful. That, as I also said, is the kind of thing I
> > needed to convince me that the explanation was genuine. All the other
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> "placed a chip on his shoulder" turns up two vivid portrayals of the
> literal custom.

No, I didn't. Next question?
[...]

> These stories are exactly what I assured you a few days ago could be
> easily found in US literature. [...]

Yes, and I hoped you would produce them, which you did. Thank you.

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jerry_friedman@yahoo.com - 04 Jan 2007 03:58 GMT
...
> I see that the two boys are already, in the 1830 account,
> determined to fight anyway: so what's the ritual about?
...

Determined to fight is one thing; hitting someone who might hit you
back is another.  I think the boy needs the ritual to get his nerve up
and give his opponent a chance to back down, which would be the best
possible outcome.  See the fight scene in /Tom Sawyer/, complete with
drawing a line in the dust.

Unlike Tony Cooper, I never saw the line-drawing bit, which was given
more publicity by the late Saddam Hussein.  The few [*] fights I got
into and the only somewhat more I saw never started with these rituals;
they started when somebody lost his temper and attacked somebody else.
It seemed that if two boys got to the point of challenging each other
(say, standing on tiptoe with their chests touching), they would cool
off enough that the fight wouldn't happen.  I gather other times and
places are different, though.  Heck, there have been times and places
when grown men could fight a duel to the death in cold blood.

[*] Few non-fraternal, that is.

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Pat Durkin - 04 Jan 2007 17:13 GMT
> ...
>> I see that the two boys are already, in the 1830 account,
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> places are different, though.  Heck, there have been times and places
> when grown men could fight a duel to the death in cold blood.

Don't you think that all of these rituals need an audience?  That is,
the contestants need witnesses as to who starts the fight, who fights
fair, who wins, and who brags about it to the rest of the playground or
neighborhood community.  Besides, the ritual gives time for the
contestants' supporters to gather round as cheering sections, ready to
join in at the slightest provocation.

Two individuals in an isolated place wouldn't need the rituals, though
one or the other might have some concept of gentlemanly behavior,
chivalry, Marquis of Queensbury rules.  That would probably be the
loser.
Ray O'Hara - 30 Dec 2006 20:54 GMT
> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit argumentative
> and grumpy".
>
> What is a 'chip', and why is it on someone's shoulder?

A wood chip would be placed on a shoulder. The wearer would dare one to
knock it off after wich a fight would ensue.
irwell - 30 Dec 2006 21:15 GMT
>> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
>argumentative
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>A wood chip would be placed on a shoulder. The wearer would dare one to
>knock it off after wich a fight would ensue.

From the old block, not the silicon kind, nor used in casinos,
nor a rupee, nor what you eat with fish.
Stuart Chapman - 31 Dec 2006 06:54 GMT
>> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
> argumentative
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> A wood chip would be placed on a shoulder. The wearer would dare one to
> knock it off after wich a fight would ensue.

I always thought it was the 'underdog', that is, the sawyer standing
under the log in a pit saw, who had the chips on his shoulder.

But I could be very, very, wrong.

Stupot
Ray O'Hara - 31 Dec 2006 09:19 GMT
> >> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
> > argumentative
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> Stupot

And you are. Someone said to have a chip on their shoulder is someone
thought to be belligerent or quick to take offense.
Nick Spalding - 31 Dec 2006 11:37 GMT
Ray O'Hara wrote, in <05ednfhWx6YqHQrYnZ2dnUVZ_tijnZ2d@comcast.com>
on Sun, 31 Dec 2006 04:19:55 -0500:

> > >> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
> > > argumentative
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> And you are. Someone said to have a chip on their shoulder is someone
> thought to be belligerent or quick to take offense.

A memory from the 1960s, possibly from a book review in The Observer:

... a chip on his shoulder (this is the badge by which the Earls Court
Australians recognise one another) ...
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Peter Duncanson - 31 Dec 2006 13:13 GMT
>> >> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
>> > argumentative
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>And you are. Someone said to have a chip on their shoulder is someone
>thought to be belligerent or quick to take offense.

In my experience it's more specific than that.

(Perhaps the phtase is used with a wider meaning elsewhere.)

A meaning with which I'm familiar is given in the _Longman
Dictionary of English Idioms_:

   chip on one's/the shoulder (coll)

   a feeling of anger or bitterness because one thinks that one
   is regarded by others of little value or worth.
   
The phrase is also used to describe a gnawing sense of grievance
about something that happened in the past and which cannot be
undone, and for which no one today can be held responsible, and
certainly not those known to the "chip-bearer".

These feelings can, and do, lead to belligerence.

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Frank ess - 31 Dec 2006 22:30 GMT
>>>>> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
>>>>> argumentative and grumpy".
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> These feelings can, and do, lead to belligerence.

When I was ten or so my father explained and demonstrared the practice
current in his world at age ten (1921): when there was festering
enmity between two members of the cohort, whichever figured he had the
wherewithal to win a scuffle would find an actual wood chip (plenty
around in wood-burning rural Utah), balance it on his shoulder and
challenge the other party to knock it off. If he had the gumption to
do so, the chip-tipper would, and the fight ensued. Pecking order
established, the boys would be tight friends thereafter.

I understood this to be a real and not infrequent occurrence. Never
saw such a thing in my own life. So far.

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irwell - 31 Dec 2006 22:44 GMT
>>>>>> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
>>>>>> argumentative and grumpy".
[quoted text clipped - 46 lines]
>I understood this to be a real and not infrequent occurrence. Never
>saw such a thing in my own life. So far.
A bit like the 'tread on the tail of me coat' in Ireland.

That evening we met by the woodbine
The Shannon we crossed in the dark
And I paddled him with my shillelagh
For he trod on the tail of me coat.
Tony Cooper - 01 Jan 2007 00:31 GMT
>When I was ten or so my father explained and demonstrared the practice
>current in his world at age ten (1921): when there was festering
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>I understood this to be a real and not infrequent occurrence. Never
>saw such a thing in my own life. So far.

I've never seen the wood chip invitation to wrassle, but drawing a
line in the dirt with a toe was actually done.  Sometimes multiple
lines were drawn when the toe-dragger didn't really expect the first
line to be crossed.  Or the second.

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HVS - 01 Jan 2007 00:37 GMT
On 01 Jan 2007, Tony Cooper wrote

> I've never seen the wood chip invitation to wrassle, but drawing
> a line in the dirt with a toe was actually done.  Sometimes
> multiple lines were drawn when the toe-dragger didn't really
> expect the first line to be crossed.  Or the second.

Ah yes:  when Bugs gets Yosemite Sam to cross multiple lines and then
step into mid-air...

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Stuart Chapman - 31 Dec 2006 21:49 GMT
>>>> "He's got a chip on his shoulder" means, I think, "He's a bit
>>> argumentative
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> And you are. Someone said to have a chip on their shoulder is someone
> thought to be belligerent or quick to take offense.

I know that. Sorry, I should have clarified. The 'chip-on-shoulder'
attitude is a carry-over from the underdog, who was always pissed that
he was having sawdust raining down on him.

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