What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
remember"???
cybercypher - 29 Aug 2007 11:55 GMT
> What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
> remember"???
The first is the truth and the second is a lie.

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Robert Bannister - 30 Aug 2007 00:04 GMT
>>What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
>>remember"???
>
> The first is the truth and the second is a lie.
Plus the second doesn't even seem to be idiomatic: I would expect "I
don't seem to remember". The actual phrase that has now been used in
numerous court cases in Australia, originally by Alan Bond, but later by
a series of politicians is "I do not recall".

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The Grammer Genious - 30 Aug 2007 00:10 GMT
>>>What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
>>>remember"???
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> Plus the second doesn't even seem to be idiomatic: I would expect "I don't
> seem to remember". <...>
No person can tell how he seems. Only another can make that judgment. Unless
the speaker is talking about his image in a mirror or photograph. I seem
handsome.
During his congressional hearings, Attorney General Alberto Gonzales (or
"Allie G." as we like to call him) repeatedly claimed to be unable to recall
anything. But he did not seem to be unable.
"I can't seem to..." is entirely idiomatic.
Mark Brader - 30 Aug 2007 05:43 GMT
> "I can't seem to..." is entirely idiomatic.
And, as mentioned here not long ago, what it means is, "I would expect
to be able to... but somehow I can't."

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Oleg Lego - 30 Aug 2007 07:04 GMT
>> "I can't seem to..." is entirely idiomatic.
>
>And, as mentioned here not long ago, what it means is, "I would expect
>to be able to... but somehow I can't."
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Roland Hutchinson - 30 Aug 2007 17:20 GMT
>>>>What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
>>>>remember"???
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> Unless the speaker is talking about his image in a mirror or photograph. I
> seem handsome.
"I can't seem to..." is an idiomatic way (meta-sompinornother, innit?) of
saying "I don't seem to be able to...", meaning "It seems to me that (at
present, for some reason) I can't..."

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Robert Bannister - 31 Aug 2007 02:24 GMT
>>>>What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
>>>>remember"???
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>
> "I can't seem to..." is entirely idiomatic.
And the meaning is "It seems I can't", although I prefer "It seems I don't".

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ByEobs - 30 Aug 2007 05:47 GMT
> What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
> remember"???
FYI,
I saw the expression "I can't seem to remember" in the novel
"Norwegian Wood" written by Murakami Haruki.
Although it's translated from Japanese to English.
"Mind if I sit down?" she asked.
"Or are you expecting somebody?"
Still uncertain, I shook my head.
"No, nobody's coming. Please."
With a wooden clunk, she dragged a chair out and sat down across from
me, staring straight at me through her sunglasses, then glancing down
at my plate.
"Looks good," she said.
"It is good. Mushroom omelette and green pea salad."
"Damn," she said.
"Oh, well, I'll get it next time. I already ordered something else."
"What'd you order?"
"Macaroni and cheese."
"Their macaroni and cheese is not bad, either," I said.
"By the way, do I know you? I can't seem to remember."
Roland Hutchinson - 30 Aug 2007 17:18 GMT
> What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
> remember"???
I used to know these things...

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The Grammer Genious - 30 Aug 2007 19:43 GMT
>> What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
>> remember"???
>
> I used to know these things...
I didn't used to but now I do.
Daniel Damouth - 31 Aug 2007 23:05 GMT
ByEobs <mooeobchoi@gmail.com> wrote in news:1188383382.694637.110730
@x35g2000prf.googlegroups.com:
> What's the difference between "I can't remember" and "I can't seem to
> remember"???
The second indicates some doubt, as if the speaker's current impression
is that she cannot remember, but that impression might be false. Maybe
with enough effort or time she could remember.
-Dan Damouth