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Frances Kemmish - 26 Sep 2007 15:08 GMT
I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
dinner until they arrived. She thought I had missed a word (ever
vigilant, as she is, for the onset of senility in her parents), but, to
me, that was a perfectly ordinary idiom.

Is this another thing that I haven't noticed Americans not saying in the
last 22 years?

Fran
tinwhistler - 26 Sep 2007 15:58 GMT
> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> Is this another thing that I haven't noticed Americans not saying in the
> last 22 years?
[snip]

Did you mean all those negatives in your question?  (My head kinda
hurts.)  Your usage is new to me -- I would have thought that "waiting
dinner" meant serving food around the table.  But what do we left
pondians know?
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Frances Kemmish - 26 Sep 2007 16:06 GMT
>>Is this another thing that I haven't noticed Americans not saying in the
>>last 22 years?
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Did you mean all those negatives in your question?  (My head kinda
> hurts.)  

Yes, I did.

Fran
Father Ignatius - 26 Sep 2007 16:54 GMT
> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently,
> and I asked if she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning,
> did she postpone serving dinner until they arrived. She
> thought I had missed a word (ever vigilant, as she is,
> for the onset of senility in her parents), but, to me,
> that was a perfectly ordinary idiom.

[Nice comma usuage.]

It is a familiar idiom to rightpondian me, but your post prompts the
reflection that I don't recall hearing it for many years.  Perhaps it is
linked to behaviour or attitudes that are no longer standard.

> Is this another thing that I haven't noticed Americans
> not saying in the last 22 years?

I surmise that, given that "waited tables" seems to be American for "was a
waiter", this phrase would give an American pause[1].

[1] Not like a foot transplant.
jerry_friedman@yahoo.com - 26 Sep 2007 17:10 GMT
> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> Is this another thing that I haven't noticed Americans not saying in the
> last 22 years?

Normal to this American.

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Barbara Bailey - 26 Sep 2007 19:47 GMT
>> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
>> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Normal to this American.

Normal to this one as well, although I did hear it much more in the South
than in the Midwest.
Roland Hutchinson - 26 Sep 2007 21:48 GMT
>>> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
>>> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> Normal to this one as well, although I did hear it much more in the South
> than in the Midwest.

This American (a Californian long resident in the Northeast) understands it
but would not use it himself.

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Sara Lorimer - 27 Sep 2007 03:53 GMT
> >> Normal to this American.
> >
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> This American (a Californian long resident in the Northeast) understands it
> but would not use it himself.

This American doesn't remember ever hearing it before, which makes her
wonder if she needs to stop daydreaming so much.

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Roland Hutchinson - 27 Sep 2007 06:27 GMT
>> >> Normal to this American.
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> This American doesn't remember ever hearing it before, which makes her
> wonder if she needs to stop daydreaming so much.

The California boy, however, isn't entirely sure that he didn't pick it up
abroad, so you may not be daydreaming as much as you think.

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Ray O'Hara - 26 Sep 2007 23:04 GMT
> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Fran

Held dinner is the usage I know. "We held dinner because X was going to be
late."

Waited dinner sounds like you were a hired server.
Dave - 29 Sep 2007 12:34 GMT
> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Fran

By no means universal, but it wouldn't be thought unusual in New
Zealand, as in, "I'm working late tonight.  Don't wait dinner for me."
Pakeha usage rather than Maori or immigrant.

Dave
Skitt - 29 Sep 2007 19:25 GMT
>> I was having a conversation with my daughter recently, and I asked if
>> she "waited dinner" for someone, meaning, did she postpone serving
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> Zealand, as in, "I'm working late tonight.  Don't wait dinner for me."
> Pakeha usage rather than Maori or immigrant.

I have never used that phrase, as I have always made a point of being on
time for dinner.  I have heard others use it, though.  I think they had
something going on the side.  Anyway, yes, I am familiar with the "waiting
dinner" phrase in this context.
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