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Mike Lyle - 20 Feb 2008 16:41 GMT
A bouncy young woman, equipped with the appropriate ID and fundraising
stuff, has just been at my door asking if I'd "seen a person with
epilepsy before".

Quite apart from finding this approach patronising, I did wonder some
more about the form of words. We talk about this sort of thing often
enough in AUE, but I don't feel we've ever got to the bottom of why "a
person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel left out?

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Philip Eden - 20 Feb 2008 16:47 GMT
"Mike Lyle" <mike_lyle_uk@REMOVETHISyahoo.co.uk> wrote :

>A bouncy young woman, equipped with the appropriate ID and fundraising
> stuff, has just been at my door asking if I'd "seen a person with
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
> epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel left out?

The answer, of course, should be, "How on earth should I know?"
as most epileptics ... erm, persons with epilepsy ... present no
symptoms most of the time. Do you think she actually meant that,
or perhaps rather "a person experiencing an epileptic fit"? (Though
I guess "fit" is probably non-PC these days too.)

Philip Eden
jerry_friedman@yahoo.com - 20 Feb 2008 17:37 GMT
> "Mike Lyle" <mike_lyle...@REMOVETHISyahoo.co.uk> wrote :
>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> as most epileptics ... erm, persons with epilepsy ... present no
> symptoms most of the time.

That might be playing right into her hands.  She could then have
informed Mike that most persons with epilepsy lead perfectly normal
lives, as today's medications...

Anyway, I've never seen anyone have a seizure, but two people who have
told me they have epilepsy that I can remember, and someone else has
told me that two of her children do, so I would have answered "yes".

> Do you think she actually meant that,
> or perhaps rather "a person experiencing an epileptic fit"? (Though
> I guess "fit" is probably non-PC these days too.)

See above.  I can't bring myself to say "seize" for "have a seizure",
though.

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Django Cat - 20 Feb 2008 17:51 GMT
> > The answer, of course, should be, "How on earth should I know?"
> > as most epileptics ... erm, persons with epilepsy ... present no
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> told me they have epilepsy that I can remember, and someone else has
> told me that two of her children do, so I would have answered "yes".

For two years I worked in a centre for disabled adults, and had to deal
with people having fits - and we called them fits - on a daily basis.
Favourite moment was taking a group sailing, and having an epileptic
lad crewing a dinghy for me have a seizure as we were going about.  By
a miracle he fell into the boat not out of it. He was wearing a
buoyancy aid - they keep you afloat but won't flip you face up.  If
he'd gone in face down there's a good chance he would have drowned.

DC

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tony cooper - 20 Feb 2008 19:54 GMT
>"Mike Lyle" <mike_lyle_uk@REMOVETHISyahoo.co.uk> wrote :
>
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>or perhaps rather "a person experiencing an epileptic fit"? (Though
>I guess "fit" is probably non-PC these days too.)

It has been non-PC for many years.  I remember being with my father in
a store in the 50s when a person had an epileptic seizure.  My father
said something about the need to do something to prevent the person
from swallowing his tongue because people having a fit often did that.
The man's wife took a strip off my father for using the word "fit"
saying that dogs have fits and people have seizures.  

I don't recall my father's exact words in reply, but it was something
like "OK, lady, he's having a seizure and you're having a fit."  

My father always had a short fuse.
 
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Richard Bollard - 26 Feb 2008 02:17 GMT
[...]

>I remember being with my father in
>a store in the 50s when a person had an epileptic seizure.  My father
>said something about the need to do something to prevent the person
>from swallowing his tongue because people having a fit often did that.

[...]

Just in case anyone reading is not aware, your father was wrong. First
aid treatment is to make sure that they are not going to damage
themselves where they are, maybe put something soft under their head,
but basically, leave them alone to come out of the fit. Then a bit of
reassurance as they will be confused when they come out of it. If they
don't stop fitting after three minutes, call an ambulance.
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tony cooper - 26 Feb 2008 04:18 GMT
>[...]
>
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>
>Just in case anyone reading is not aware, your father was wrong.

I'm sure you are correct, but it was commonly thought in those times
that something should be inserted in the mouth to prevent the person
from biting or swallowing the tongue.

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Tony Cooper - Orlando, Florida
Lars Eighner - 26 Feb 2008 04:37 GMT
> I'm sure you are correct, but it was commonly thought in those times
> that something should be inserted in the mouth to prevent the person
> from biting or swallowing the tongue.

Yes, it was.  "Swallowing the tongue" is pritnear an anatomical
impossibility, but biting the tongue or cheek or choking on something else
in the mouth --- such as a dental appliance --- happened from time to time.
It was rare, but it happened.  However when the outcomes of events with
interventions were compared to outcomes of events with no intervention,
there was no contest.  Many more people were injured by interventions.

Now it's: remove hard and sharp objects from the area and leave the victim
alone.  Of course, prolonged or rapidly occurring seizures are a medical
emergency, calling for advanced emergency medical treatment.

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Robert Bannister - 27 Feb 2008 00:29 GMT
>>[...]
>>
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> that something should be inserted in the mouth to prevent the person
> from biting or swallowing the tongue.

I also remember that, but that was before I saw my first epileptic fit.
It would be will nigh impossible without causing the sufferer severe
damage. The main thing is to move any chairs, tables, etc. that they
might hit with their thrashing limbs.

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Don Aitken - 26 Feb 2008 05:43 GMT
>[...]
>
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>reassurance as they will be confused when they come out of it. If they
>don't stop fitting after three minutes, call an ambulance.

I think three minutes is rather short. My epileptic friend's
unfavorite thing was coming round in an ambulance miles from where she
wanted to be. That meant they were committed to taking her to
whichever hospital it was, however much she complained. She wasn't
offered any help in getting back, either.

The problem she experienced in the immediate aftermath of a fit was
not feeling confused; it was an inability to speak coherently. She was
usually trying desperately to say "I don't need any help; please leave
me alone".

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Richard Bollard - 28 Feb 2008 23:40 GMT
>>[...]
>>
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>usually trying desperately to say "I don't need any help; please leave
>me alone".

Tonic clonic seizures generally last up to three minutes. If you wait
three minutes, then call an ambulance *and* the person hasn't woken up
until after they've been put in said ambulance then I think the call
was well justified.

Chances are your friend's ambulance caller called straight away. Most
convulsive seizures don't require intervention but I wouldn't be too
hard on anyone calling for help if they didn't know that.
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Peter Duncanson (BrE) - 29 Feb 2008 00:23 GMT
>>>[...]
>>>
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>convulsive seizures don't require intervention but I wouldn't be too
>hard on anyone calling for help if they didn't know that.

Once in Belfast, NI, I saw a person lying unconscious on the
footpath (sidewalk) with an ambulance close by and the
paramedics and bystanders leaning against walls and generally
killing time. I went over to inquire and was told that the
person was having a seizure and the paramedics were waiting for
him to come round. Only then would a decision be made as to
whether he needed to be taken to hospital.

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Peter Duncanson (BrE) - 29 Feb 2008 01:08 GMT
>I went over to inquire

Typo. I normally use the spelling "enquire" when I mean "ask a
question".

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LFS - 20 Feb 2008 16:52 GMT
> A bouncy young woman, equipped with the appropriate ID and fundraising
> stuff, has just been at my door asking if I'd "seen a person with
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
> epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel left out?

Doesn't it have something to do with attempts to avoid defining their
personhood in terms of a single condition that they happen to have?

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Mark Brader - 21 Feb 2008 00:47 GMT
Mike Lyle:
>> ... I don't feel we've ever got to the bottom of why "a
>> person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
>> epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel left out?

Laura Spira:
> Doesn't it have something to do with attempts to avoid defining their
> personhood in terms of a single condition that they happen to have?

That's what they *say* (not just epileptics but AIDS victims and others
advocating such usage), but I think it's at least as much a political
action: if they succeed in changing the way other people speak, they've
demonstrated a degree of power and importance.  And I say the hell with it.
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CDB - 21 Feb 2008 14:48 GMT
> Mike Lyle:
>>> ... I don't feel we've ever got to the bottom of why "a
>>> person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
>>> epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel
>>> left out?

> Laura Spira:
>> Doesn't it have something to do with attempts to avoid defining
>> their personhood in terms of a single condition that they happen
>> to have?

> That's what they *say* (not just epileptics but AIDS victims and
> others advocating such usage), but I think it's at least as much a
> political action: if they succeed in changing the way other people
> speak, they've demonstrated a degree of power and importance.  And
> I say the hell with it.

Mmm, spinnage.
Mark Brader - 22 Feb 2008 05:37 GMT
Mark Brader:
> > ... And I say the hell with it.

C.B. Bellemare:
> Mmm, spinnage.

(Applause!)
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HVS - 20 Feb 2008 16:52 GMT
On 20 Feb 2008, Mike Lyle wrote

> A bouncy young woman, equipped with the appropriate ID and
> fundraising stuff, has just been at my door asking if I'd "seen
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> more courteous than "an epileptic". Is it just because it's
> longer?

I don't think so:  I think it's because it attempts to stress that
it's a person who has a condition, rather than giving primacy to the
condition rather than the person.

It used to be particularly common, of course, in medical circles:  
"We have a case meeting about an epileptic" rather than "We have a
case meeting about Fred and his epilepsy".

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Paul Wolff - 20 Feb 2008 23:14 GMT
>On 20 Feb 2008, Mike Lyle wrote
>
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>"We have a case meeting about an epileptic" rather than "We have a
>case meeting about Fred and his epilepsy".

So which should I be least patronised by:
Englishman, or man of English birth;
rifleman, or man with skill at rifle shooting;
lawyer, or person of legal qualification;
husband, or male in conjugal bondage;
widower, or man bereft of wife;
acrobat, or person of gymnasm;
paraplegic, or practically legless?

Three could be said to be voluntary, and four could be said to be
involuntary conditions.

Doesn't 'a person with epilepsy' rather suggest someone fitting (as they
say), while an epileptic merely suggests someone apt to fit (neat, isn't
it?), if the stars happen to line up that way today?
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Lars Eighner - 20 Feb 2008 21:20 GMT
> A bouncy young woman, equipped with the appropriate ID and fundraising
> stuff, has just been at my door asking if I'd "seen a person with
> epilepsy before".

> Quite apart from finding this approach patronising, I did wonder some
> more about the form of words. We talk about this sort of thing often
> enough in AUE, but I don't feel we've ever got to the bottom of why "a
> person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
> epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel left out?

The general objection is to nouning an adjective, thereby making the person
the disorder, condition, etc.  This is so often done when the connotation is
negative and so seldom done when the connotation is positive --- you never
hear 'He is a brilliant' --- it is difficult to escape the conclusion that
depersonalization is intended.

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Amethyst Deceiver - 21 Feb 2008 12:01 GMT
> A bouncy young woman, equipped with the appropriate ID and fundraising
> stuff, has just been at my door asking if I'd "seen a person with
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> person with epilepsy" is supposed to be more courteous than "an
> epileptic". Is it just because it's longer? Do coeliacs  feel left out?

Of course we feel left out. We can't have beer or cakes.
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