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Egbert White - 05 May 2009 18:28 GMT
Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific and
it is totally inappropriate for a man to use it in referring to
himself.  Somehow the people who design the free return-address labels
that are so widely disseminated are too ignorant to know this, so I
repeatedly get stacks of labels starting with "Mr. Egbert White." They
ask for a donation.  If they want a donation from me, they'll have to
first drop the "Mr."  I decline to use a label telling the world that
I am "Mr. Egbert White."
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MC - 05 May 2009 18:52 GMT
> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific and
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> first drop the "Mr."  I decline to use a label telling the world that
> I am "Mr. Egbert White."

I feel a stern letter to the editor coming on.

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Egbert White - 05 May 2009 19:45 GMT
>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific and
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
>I feel a stern letter to the editor coming on.

You are of course going to write all the letters you want to, but I
don't see what that has to do with my remarks, which I hoped would be
read by someone who is responsible for the content of return-address
labels.

Just out of curiosity, though, what editor of what publication are you
going to write a letter to, and what about?
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Robert Lieblich - 06 May 2009 03:00 GMT
> > I feel a stern letter to the editor coming on.

> You are of course going to write all the letters you want to, but I
> don't see what that has to do with my remarks, which I hoped would be
> read by someone who is responsible for the content of return-address
> labels.

I think you'll find your expectations disappointed.

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Egbert White - 06 May 2009 05:47 GMT
>> > I feel a stern letter to the editor coming on.
>
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
>I think you'll find your expectations disappointed.

But I won't know it.  Ignorance is bliss.  Anyway, among the thousands
of people who participate here at some level, and the additional
thousands who merely lurk, who wants to assume that absolutely none of
them have anything to do with design of self-address labels?
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tony cooper - 06 May 2009 06:33 GMT
>>> > I feel a stern letter to the editor coming on.
>>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>thousands who merely lurk, who wants to assume that absolutely none of
>them have anything to do with design of self-address labels?

The freebies that we receive in the mail come from organizations like
the Disabled Veterans or The Little Sisters of the Poor.  (Yeah, we're
Catholic)  They are unsolicited gifts sent with a begging letter for
donations.  They think by giving me something that I will give them
something.  They are wrong.

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 06 May 2009 16:52 GMT
> The freebies that we receive in the mail come from organizations
> like the Disabled Veterans or The Little Sisters of the Poor.
> (Yeah, we're Catholic) They are unsolicited gifts sent with a
> begging letter for donations.  They think by giving me something
> that I will give them something.  They are wrong.

In your specific case, perhaps, but I'm pretty sure that good studies
have shown that such "gifts" do increase the return rate.  Probably by
making it more likely that people will actually open the envelope (to
get the labels) rather than just tossing it unopened.  

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Joe Fineman - 06 May 2009 01:05 GMT
> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> they'll have to first drop the "Mr."  I decline to use a label
> telling the world that I am "Mr. Egbert White."

It does give the recipient leave to address you as "Dear Mr. White" --
a fair guess as long as you're Egbert, but suppose you were
Mr. Shirley White.
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Robert Bannister - 06 May 2009 02:06 GMT
>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> a fair guess as long as you're Egbert, but suppose you were
> Mr. Shirley White.

I agree. Apart from ambiguous names like Les and Chris, there are a
number of foreign names that would give the recipient no clue. And then
there are the people who wish to be addressed as Doctor or even some
pretentious title.

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tony cooper - 06 May 2009 02:34 GMT
>>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>there are the people who wish to be addressed as Doctor or even some
>pretentious title.

My daughter's first name is a family last name.  She often receives
mail address to "Mr...".  I guess the mailing list people figure
chances are 50/50 they're right.

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Egbert White - 06 May 2009 05:42 GMT
>>>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>>>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>mail address to "Mr...".  I guess the mailing list people figure
>chances are 50/50 they're right.

AUE used to have a regular participant named Robin (maybe still does).
He told us that in high school he once found himself assigned to a
girls' gym class.

This seems a good time to mention once more what has previously
mentioned in AUE, that the Los Angeles Times has reported receiving
mail with the salutation "Dear Dr. Los Angeles Times."
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Evan Kirshenbaum - 06 May 2009 16:45 GMT
> This seems a good time to mention once more what has previously
> mentioned in AUE, that the Los Angeles Times has reported receiving
> mail with the salutation "Dear Dr. Los Angeles Times."

I pick up the mail for the "Bella Corte HOA"[1].  Ms. Hoa has received
mail on several occasions, once being offered a spot in _Who's Who_.

[1] Homeowners Association.  Officially with no apostrophe.

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Mike Lyle - 06 May 2009 19:34 GMT
[...]

> I pick up the mail for the "Bella Corte HOA"[1].  Ms. Hoa has received
> mail on several occasions, once being offered a spot in _Who's Who_.

Go on, if it's not too long ago: I dare you. (A friend had to confess,
very late in the process, that a part-entry submitted for the NSOED had
in fact been a joke, which nobody had spotted.)

> [1] Homeowners Association.  Officially with no apostrophe.

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R H Draney - 06 May 2009 17:38 GMT
Egbert White filted:

>This seems a good time to mention once more what has previously
>mentioned in AUE, that the Los Angeles Times has reported receiving
>mail with the salutation "Dear Dr. Los Angeles Times."

Until 1989, the second newspaper in Los Angeles was the Herald-Examiner, subject
of a running gag on "Sanford and Son"...Fred would get worked up into a lather
about something, and call the paper:  "Hello, Herald-Examiner?  Let me speak to
Herald" (Redd Foxx was MIMIM)....

Is the popular story about a letter addressed to "Mr. Intl B. MacHines" merely
an urban legend?...r

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 06 May 2009 19:50 GMT
> Is the popular story about a letter addressed to "Mr. Intl
> B. MacHines" merely an urban legend?...r

The one hit I got on it tells it in first person:

   In the 1970's, when I worked for International Business Machines
   (IBM) we received a letter from American Express addressed to:

   Mr. Intl B. MacHines.

   I swear this is true.  I still have the letter.

           <URL:http://www.walletpop.com/blog/2009/03/13/
            deadbeat-man-dead-for-450-years-gets-tv-bill/>

As this is recent and the commenter is identified, presumably you
could ask him for a scan.

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Nick - 06 May 2009 20:20 GMT
>> Is the popular story about a letter addressed to "Mr. Intl
>> B. MacHines" merely an urban legend?...r
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> As this is recent and the commenter is identified, presumably you
> could ask him for a scan.

I like the automatic capitalisation.  I - surnamed "Atty" - have had
computer generated letters address to "Dr Attorney" before now.  Thanks
to my use of the Internet, and familiarity with AmE abbreviations, I at
least understood why.  My father, who received similar letters to "Mr
Attorney" was baffled.
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R H Draney - 06 May 2009 21:49 GMT
Nick filted:

>>> Is the popular story about a letter addressed to "Mr. Intl
>>> B. MacHines" merely an urban legend?...r
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>least understood why.  My father, who received similar letters to "Mr
>Attorney" was baffled.

I once had to write a program to convert a list of mailing addresses to fields
that could be sorted (by last name, zip code, etc, depending on the use to which
the addresses were being put)...the original file had only the lines for the
label itself, all caps, with a delimiter to tell a much older program when to
skip to the next label...thus there were labels with six lines of address,
others with only two, and wildly inconsistent policies about where the state and
zip code might be found (a lot of people apparently think "AR" means
"Arizona")....

The same program had to make an intelligent guess about the correct
capitalization, since the list was being used to drive a template for a cover
page to accompany newsletters, and they didn't want letters to start:

 Dear Mr. KIRSHENBAUM,

As for first and last names, I had to allow for either or both to be multi-word,
with a possible middle initial included...there was no "MARY ANN VAN DE KAMP" in
the database, but it takes a clever program to figure out where to make the
break in something like that...and then there were the variations of spacing:
"MC COY" vs "MCCOY"....

The one anomaly I was never able to program for, and the database had to be
corrected manually, was that two surnames that began with "MAC" were not using
it as a prefix...no reasonable rule I could devise would prevent the program
from capitalizing the first letter following that prefix....r

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Nick Spalding - 07 May 2009 09:03 GMT
Nick wrote, in <87eiv2xckr.fsf@temporary-address.org.uk>
on Wed, 06 May 2009 20:20:52 +0100:

> >> Is the popular story about a letter addressed to "Mr. Intl
> >> B. MacHines" merely an urban legend?...r
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> least understood why.  My father, who received similar letters to "Mr
> Attorney" was baffled.

A program of mine which handles entries for regattas has automatic
capitalisation.  It has an exception file which among other things makes
sure that if we ever get an entry from someone in Macclesfield again it
will not appear as MacClesfield.
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Robin Bignall - 06 May 2009 22:11 GMT
>>>>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>>>>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>He told us that in high school he once found himself assigned to a
>girls' gym class.

It certainly has one Robin, who would probably have given his right
arm after puberty struck to have been invited to a girl's gym class.
Some of those school fences that I mentioned in a previous post were
about 15 feet high and built to keep the senior girls school inviolate
from the senior boys.  On days when the girls were doing games the
windows of the boys' school that faced the playing fields were covered
with blinds.

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Egbert White - 07 May 2009 00:07 GMT
>>>>>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>>>>>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>windows of the boys' school that faced the playing fields were covered
>with blinds.

The Robin I was referring to was not you.  Maybe I should have
mentioned that.

Anyway, in my high school one of the boys' rest rooms was separated by
only a locked door from the room where the girls changed clothes for
gym.  The door had a gap of a fraction of an inch at the bottom.  Some
of the naughtier boys would pour water on the floor making a
reasonably good mirror in which the girls could be observed in various
stages of undress, some in the altogether.

A friend of mine told me that the time he tried it, the girls seemed
to be wise to the tactic, so all of the naked ones were being careful
to stand facing away from the door.
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Mike Mooney - 07 May 2009 16:05 GMT
>  On Wed, 06 May 2009 22:11:06 +0100, Robin Bignall
>
[quoted text clipped - 48 lines]
> to be wise to the tactic, so all of the naked ones were being careful
> to stand facing away from the door.

So they were quite happy to display their derrieres, rather than
simply mop up the water and/or block up the gap before disrobing?
Hmmmm....

Mike M
Pat Durkin - 07 May 2009 16:31 GMT
>> On Wed, 06 May 2009 22:11:06 +0100, Robin Bignall
>>
>> <docro...@ntlworld.com> wrote:

>>> It certainly has one Robin, who would probably have given his right
>>> arm after puberty struck to have been invited to a girl's gym class.
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> simply mop up the water and/or block up the gap before disrobing?
> Hmmmm....

I wonder.  I understand that girls are a bit more modest than guys, even
when unobserved.  They don't tend to parade their glories amongs their
fellows.
Robert Lieblich - 07 May 2009 23:27 GMT
[ ... ]

> I wonder.  I understand that girls are a bit more modest than guys, even
> when unobserved.  They don't tend to parade their glories amongs their
> fellows.

Is "fellow girls" an oxymoron?

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Pat Durkin - 07 May 2009 23:50 GMT
> [ ... ]
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Is "fellow girls" an oxymoron?

Not as long as they can say to each other: Hey, guys, what say we take
in a movie?

And those magicians of language corruption insisted that
"fellow-travelers" could include females as well as males.
Evan Kirshenbaum - 08 May 2009 02:00 GMT
> [ ... ]
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Is "fellow girls" an oxymoron?

I wouldn't say so.  The OED only uses "one" it its definitions, e.g.

   One that is associated with another in habitual or temporary
   companionship; a companion, associate, comrade

They note a subsense of that as "less frequently said of women", which
they mark as obsolete and cite from ca. 1330 through 1611, but it
doesn't strike me as at all strange.  Google Books has hits for
"fellow-girls" from 1879

   [Attn Jesse Sheidlower: OED postdating]

   ... but it is certain that I have more interest, and find more
   sympathy (as a rule) in the conversation of my fellow-men than I
   do in that of my fellow-women--and particularly of my
   fellow-girls.

                        Ada Cambridge, _In Two Years Time_, 1879

[The speaker is a woman] to the present.

   It was nice to have fellow girls of her own age, who understood
   the trials that she endured on a daily basis, to laugh, learn and
   commiserate with.

                        Heath Fogelman, _The Girl in the Swing_, 2007

Checking other probably female nouns, "fellow-nurses" goes back to
at least 1840

   From the conversations I overheard between her and her
   fellow-nurses, I found their attendance on the cottage invalids
   had been indiscriminately apportioned, and that Helen's arm was as
   frankly tendered as dame McQuillan's to support the wounded artist
   when stouter aids were occupied elsewhere.

                       [Isabella Steward], _The Interdict_, 1840

and forward to 2009.  "Fellow-ladies" from 1845 to 2008.
"Fellow-women" from 1823 to 2009.

Bare "fellows" in that sense is, of course, hard to search for, but I
do see things like

   She shall be brought unto the King in raiment of needlework: the
   virgins that be her fellows shall bear her company, and shall be
   brought unto thee.

                       Ps. 45:15, _The Book of Common Prayer_, [1785]

   And in this room of hers, that stood above the King's Hall, there
   were lodged with her all the ladies who were her fellows.

                       Arthur Machen (tr), Marguerite de Navarre,
                       _The Heptameron_, 1886

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Egbert White - 08 May 2009 16:50 GMT
>[ ... ]
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>Is "fellow girls" an oxymoron?

Sometimes I've even wondered about 'bosom pals.'
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Robert Bannister - 07 May 2009 01:22 GMT
> It certainly has one Robin, who would probably have given his right
> arm after puberty struck to have been invited to a girl's gym class.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> windows of the boys' school that faced the playing fields were covered
> with blinds.

I did a short spell of teaching at Ware Grammar School (for girls). One
classroom, where I gave rather poor history lessons to 11-year-olds had
a changing room next-door separated only by a wall of glass - not
frosted, but sort of bubbled. Some of the 15-year-olds changing there,
presumably aware of the only male in the school, would press their naked
bodies against the glass, which made them pretty much visible. My little
11-year-olds never seemed to notice this, but I'm afraid I did.

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Mike Mooney - 07 May 2009 16:09 GMT
> AUE used to have a regular participant named Robin (maybe still does).
> He told us that in high school he once found himself assigned to a
> girls' gym class.

WIWAL I had never heard of (human, rather than avian) female Robins. I
would assume the name to be exclusively male (a la Mr. R. Hood).

Some friends of ours in the late 1980s named their daughter Robyn with
a "y", which rather surprised me, but it seems to be more widespread
nowadays.

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Garrett Wollman - 07 May 2009 18:50 GMT
>WIWAL I had never heard of (human, rather than avian) female Robins. I
>would assume the name to be exclusively male (a la Mr. R. Hood).

Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.

>Some friends of ours in the late 1980s named their daughter Robyn with
>a "y", which rather surprised me, but it seems to be more widespread
>nowadays.

In 1955, Isaac and Gertrude Asimov named their only daughter "Robyn".

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CDB - 07 May 2009 19:58 GMT
>> WIWAL I had never heard of (human, rather than avian) female
>> Robins. I would assume the name to be exclusively male (a la Mr.
>> R. Hood).

> Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
> long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.

>> Some friends of ours in the late 1980s named their daughter Robyn
>> with a "y", which rather surprised me, but it seems to be more
>> widespread nowadays.

> In 1955, Isaac and Gertrude Asimov named their only daughter
> "Robyn".

Predating, somebody.  In 1942, roughly, friends of my parents, V*** by
name, christened their daughter Robyn.  She was my friend ex officio,
even after she laid my chest open with a toy shovel when we were
seven.  But I kept a closer eye on her after that.

No name because I find she's googlable.
Robert Lieblich - 07 May 2009 23:32 GMT
> >WIWAL I had never heard of (human, rather than avian) female Robins. I
> >would assume the name to be exclusively male (a la Mr. R. Hood).
>
> Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
> long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.

Robert McNeil (of the McNeil-Lehrer Report, still carried on by Lehrer
without McNeil), was born and reared in Canada and was actually named
"Robin," though called (in the US sense) "Robert" in professional
life.  In those relaxed moments that seem to be programmed into so
many shows, his colleagues called him "Robin." At first I thought it
was a nickname, but I soon learned otherwise.  I suspect that today
he'd go by "Robin" in professional life.

> >Some friends of ours in the late 1980s named their daughter Robyn with
> >a "y", which rather surprised me, but it seems to be more widespread
> >nowadays.
>
> In 1955, Isaac and Gertrude Asimov named their only daughter "Robyn".

I've known a couple of "Robyn"s and a couple of "Robin"s.  All were
female.  (I exclude AUE participants.)

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Skitt - 08 May 2009 00:13 GMT
>>> WIWAL I had never heard of (human, rather than avian) female
>>> Robins. I would assume the name to be exclusively male (a la Mr. R.
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I've known a couple of "Robyn"s and a couple of "Robin"s.  All were
> female.  (I exclude AUE participants.)

Remember Robin Coulcourt in Cheers?  Of course, it was only a male
character's name.  British, though.
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Robert Lieblich - 08 May 2009 02:55 GMT
[ ... ]

> > I've known a couple of "Robyn"s and a couple of "Robin"s.  All were
> > female.  (I exclude AUE participants.)
>
> Remember Robin Coulcourt in Cheers?  Of course, it was only a male
> character's name.  British, though.

Vague recollection only.  I was using "known" in a sense that excludes
"known of."

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Robert Lieblich - 08 May 2009 02:55 GMT
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> > I've known a couple of "Robyn"s and a couple of "Robin"s.  All were
> > female.  (I exclude AUE participants.)
>
> Remember Robin Coulcourt in Cheers?  Of course, it was only a male
> character's name.  British, though.

Vague recollection only.  I was using "known" in a sense that excludes
"known of."

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John Holmes - 11 May 2009 11:12 GMT
> I've known a couple of "Robyn"s and a couple of "Robin"s.  All were
> female.  (I exclude AUE participants.)

I've known a couple who were Robin and Robyn. Never met a female Robin
nor a male Robyn (though I've heard of some of the latter, with Welsh
connections).

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Bob Martin - 08 May 2009 07:43 GMT
>Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
>long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.

You thought Robin Hood and Maid Marian were a couple of lesbians?
Or are you saying you never heard of Robin Hood?

Another (male) Robin.
Garrett Wollman - 08 May 2009 17:01 GMT
>>Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
>>long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.
>
>You thought Robin Hood and Maid Marian were a couple of lesbians?

I doubt I thought of Robin Hood at all.  Never saw or read anything on
the subject, so it was just general social exposure.  I probably
thought the name was odd if I noticed.

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Robert Bannister - 09 May 2009 00:33 GMT
>>> Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
>>> long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.
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> the subject, so it was just general social exposure.  I probably
> thought the name was odd if I noticed.

Robin, Nobbin, Dobbin and Hobbin are all variants of Robert if you go
back far enough.

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R H Draney - 09 May 2009 02:09 GMT
Robert Bannister filted:

>Robin, Nobbin, Dobbin and Hobbin are all variants of Robert if you go
>back far enough.

You forgot "Puck"....r

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Robert Bannister - 10 May 2009 00:07 GMT
> Robert Bannister filted:
>> Robin, Nobbin, Dobbin and Hobbin are all variants of Robert if you go
>> back far enough.
>
> You forgot "Puck"....r

So that young man with a cold was just telling me to "Robert off".

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R H Draney - 10 May 2009 05:35 GMT
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>> Robert Bannister filted:
>>> Robin, Nobbin, Dobbin and Hobbin are all variants of Robert if you go
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>So that young man with a cold was just telling me to "Robert off".

Yes, there's a Good fellow....r

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CDB - 10 May 2009 13:28 GMT
>> Robert Bannister filted:

>>> Robin, Nobbin, Dobbin and Hobbin are all variants of Robert if
>>> you go back far enough.

>> You forgot "Puck"....r

> So that young man with a cold was just telling me to "Robert off".

Yes, he was saying "Don't stop here."
Evan Kirshenbaum - 08 May 2009 18:50 GMT
>>Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
>>long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.
>
> You thought Robin Hood and Maid Marian were a couple of lesbians?
> Or are you saying you never heard of Robin Hood?

Speaking as an American, as a child I always took "Robin Hood" to be
the name and "Robin" just a shortening of it.  The notion that his
Merry Men thought of his name as actually being "Robin" wouldn't have
occurred to me.  I'm not sure I thought of it necessarily as a girl's
name, though.  I encountered baseball player Robin Yount in 1974 and
Robin Williams in 1978.  And, of course, there was Batman's sidekick.

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> |The body was wrapped in duct tape,
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There's a sort of similar thing that has been used to illustrate
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Wood Avens - 08 May 2009 21:32 GMT
>>>Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
>>>long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.
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>Merry Men thought of his name as actually being "Robin" wouldn't have
>occurred to me.

This surely goes along with the cross-pondian difference in
pronunciation.  Those of us on the Sherwood Forest side of the
Atlantic usually pronounce it ROB-in HOOD, whereas you on the
Hollywood side lean towards RAH-bnhd.  We hear two separate names, so
we're more inclined to think of it a first name and surname, whereas
to you it must be more like a double first name.  Or even, now I come
to think of it, like a quality or state, like childhood or manhood but
not like neighbo(u)rhood.  Robinhood: the essence or quiddity of
Robin.

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R H Draney - 08 May 2009 22:26 GMT
Wood Avens filted:

>>Speaking as an American, as a child I always took "Robin Hood" to be
>>the name and "Robin" just a shortening of it.  The notion that his
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>not like neighbo(u)rhood.  Robinhood: the essence or quiddity of
>Robin.

I'd go back to primary sources to settle the matter, but unfortunately the
earliest spoken record I'll find is likely to refer to a Tasmanian actor....r

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Robert Bannister - 09 May 2009 00:32 GMT
>> Female seems to be the normal gender in my world (WIWAL was not as
>> long ago as WYWAL); I was surprised when I heard about male Robins.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Another (male) Robin.

OTOH, I did know a young woman named Robin Hood. She was a PE teacher
and she admitted somewhat shyly that she had had a go at archery.

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Default User - 07 May 2009 19:28 GMT
> > AUE used to have a regular participant named Robin (maybe still
> > does).  He told us that in high school he once found himself
> > assigned to a girls' gym class.
>
> WIWAL I had never heard of (human, rather than avian) female Robins. I
> would assume the name to be exclusively male (a la Mr. R. Hood).

It's not currently popular for either male or female children in the
US. As a female name, it was in the top 100 from the early 50s through
late 70s, peaking in the 60s in the top 30.

As a male name, the best it ever did was 160th in the mid-50s.

> Some friends of ours in the late 1980s named their daughter Robyn with
> a "y", which rather surprised me, but it seems to be more widespread
> nowadays.

That wasn't as popular as the other spelling. Interestingly, its peak
came a good ten years later.

All data from:

<http://www.ssa.gov/OACT/babynames/>

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Egbert White - 06 May 2009 05:51 GMT
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>I guess the mailing list people figure
>chances are 50/50 they're right.

I used a similar philosophy when we were taking a tour of Virginia.  I
would alternate between saying "Montichello" and "Montisello,"
assuming that I was probably close enough half the time.
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tony cooper - 06 May 2009 06:43 GMT
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>would alternate between saying "Montichello" and "Montisello,"
>assuming that I was probably close enough half the time.

Hah!  There are about three cities in Virginia where you might
mispronounce the names.  There are about three cities in the entire
country of Wales where you might get close to being able to pronounce
the name.  (Is it Sim-roo or Kym-roo?)

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Nick - 06 May 2009 07:48 GMT
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>>
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> country of Wales where you might get close to being able to pronounce
> the name.  (Is it Sim-roo or Kym-roo?)

Gym-roo, innit?
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James Hogg - 06 May 2009 07:57 GMT
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>>
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>country of Wales where you might get close to being able to pronounce
>the name.  (Is it Sim-roo or Kym-roo?)

Cum-ree

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Adam Funk - 06 May 2009 14:07 GMT
>>I used a similar philosophy when we were taking a tour of Virginia.  I
>>would alternate between saying "Montichello" and "Montisello,"
>>assuming that I was probably close enough half the time.
>
> Hah!  There are about three cities in Virginia where you might
> mispronounce the names.  

Staunton, Buena Vista, and Montevideo?

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Egbert White - 06 May 2009 05:38 GMT
>>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
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>there are the people who wish to be addressed as Doctor or even some
>pretentious title.

A replier to a letter is not likely to look at the return-address
label for clarification of sexual preference.  The proper place to
look for that sort of clarification is in the letter itself, either in
the body or in the signature.  If it were necessary for me to let a
reader know that my "Egbert" is not a female name, I might do it by
signing the letter "(Mr.) Egbert White."  Putting the "Mr." in parens
makes it seem less like a presumptuous self-honorification and more
like a gender clarification.
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Egbert White - 06 May 2009 05:31 GMT
>> Men don't call themselves 'Mister.'  If someone asks me my name, I
>> won't say 'I am Mister Egbert White.'  The mister is an honorific
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>a fair guess as long as you're Egbert, but suppose you were
>Mr. Shirley White.

If that sort of clarification is called for, the proper place to do it
is in the message itself, either in the body or in the signature.
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