> Hello:
>
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> Thanks.
> Marius Hancu
Yes. He doesn't want the bodyguard to become weak, sentimental - soft,
that is; because these aren't exactly the qualities of a good bodyguard.

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Cheryl
Marius Hancu - 03 Feb 2010 19:26 GMT
> > Does
> > "don't let this moron go soft on me"
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> > Tool gestured at the wooden cross. "Least he was a 'husband, father,
> > son, brother' -- I ain't _none_ of those things."
> Yes. He doesn't want the bodyguard to become weak, sentimental - soft,
> that is; because these aren't exactly the qualities of a good bodyguard.
Thanks.
Marius Hancu
> Hello:
>
> Does
> "don't let this moron go soft on me"
> mean
> "don't let him become a softie right now when I need him?"
Yes, as Cheryl said. "Go soft on someone", usually "on me", is a
fixed phrase and sounds somewhat old-fashioned to me. (Though you
never know. Yesterday I heard a woman, maybe around thirty, say "I
kid you not.")
> ----
> [Tool, Red's bodyguard, seems to have a moment of passing weakness
> while looking at the final resting place of a highway driver, dead in
> a head-on colision, exactly at the time when Red needs his bruising
> qualities]
The memorial on the highway is probably where the driver died but not
his "final resting place", which means where he's buried.
> "Mercy." Red thinking: Lord, please don't let this moron go soft on
> me.
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>
> Carl Hiaasen, Skinny Dip, p. 333
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Jerry Friedman
Marius Hancu - 04 Feb 2010 12:10 GMT
> > Does
> > "don't let this moron go soft on me"
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> never know. Yesterday I heard a woman, maybe around thirty, say "I
> kid you not.")
OK.
> > ----
> > [Tool, Red's bodyguard, seems to have a moment of passing weakness
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> The memorial on the highway is probably where the driver died but not
> his "final resting place", which means where he's buried.
I think you're right about that one. I don't think highway
administrations would even allow that, I don't know.
> > "Mercy." Red thinking: Lord, please don't let this moron go soft on
> > me.
>
> > Tool gestured at the wooden cross. "Least he was a 'husband, father,
> > son, brother' -- I ain't _none_ of those things."
Thank you.
Marius Hancu
tony cooper - 04 Feb 2010 17:28 GMT
>> The memorial on the highway is probably where the driver died but not
>> his "final resting place", which means where he's buried.
>
>I think you're right about that one. I don't think highway
>administrations would even allow that, I don't know.
You see roadside memorials (we call them "markers" here) all over
Florida. They are erected by family members and friends, and usually
crude crosses or markers decorated with plastic flowers and small
objects somehow related with the deceased. Usually some printed
words.
Here's one photographed near Ft Pierce (FL) that I found on the web.
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/93/250623416_70365ea884.jpg
I could get in my car and photograph four or five in a short drive
from my home, but it seems kind of creepy to do so.
It's a problem for the authorities. They are messy looking, violate
laws on signage, and unauthorized on the property on which they are
placed. However, any city/county/state official who orders their
removal is faced with a storm of protest. The public is more
sympathetic to the deceased's family than they are to the government's
intentions.
In some localities, the authorities will allow a marker to remain in
place for a certain time limit, and then require that it be replaced
with something more discreet or require that it be removed.
Roadside memorials/markers are found in other states, and prohibited
in some states, but I'm familiar with the Florida situation. Hiaasen
is a Florida boy, you know.

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Tony Cooper - Orlando, Florida
Marius Hancu - 05 Feb 2010 06:52 GMT
> >> The memorial on the highway is probably where the driver died but not
> >> his "final resting place", which means where he's buried.
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> in some states, but I'm familiar with the Florida situation. Hiaasen
> is a Florida boy, you know.
Interesting.
Thanks.
Marius Hancu
Default User - 04 Feb 2010 20:58 GMT
> > The memorial on the highway is probably where the driver died but
> > not his "final resting place", which means where he's buried.
>
> I think you're right about that one. I don't think highway
> administrations would even allow that, I don't know.
Here are some examples:
<http://www.roadsideamerica.com/rant/descansos.html>
Brian

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Frank ess - 05 Feb 2010 04:16 GMT
>> On Feb 3, 11:46 pm, Jerry Friedman <jerry_fried...@yahoo.com>
>> wrote:
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>
> <http://www.roadsideamerica.com/rant/descansos.html>
Quite a different style along the highways in Puerto Rico in 1958: the
wrecked car was pushed off to the edge of the jungle - not far from
the road, usually - and spray painted with the number dead in the
accident, F'r example, /4 muertos/. I caculated more than one deceased
per mile on the 96-mile taxi ride from San Juan to Aguadilla.
We once passed over the /Rumarosa/ mountains between Tijuana and
Mexicali, where the switchbacks are adorned with the small crosses and
displays of flowers and mementos elbow-to-elbow, on Hallownight. Most
were lighted by candles, so it was almost possible to drive without
headlamps lit.

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