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The Real Bev - 25 Aug 2010 07:25 GMT
Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
indifference or rejection rather than fear?

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mm - 25 Aug 2010 08:55 GMT
>Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
>indifference or rejection rather than fear?

Not to hijack your thread, but also I don't like the use of -phobia
for groups that may be disliked, rather than feared.  

Words intended to describe dislike are for misanthrope and that word
for not liking foreigners.

If mis- doesn't work as a prefix, how about -misonia as a suffix?
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James Hogg - 25 Aug 2010 09:07 GMT
>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> If mis- doesn't work as a prefix, how about -misonia as a suffix?

There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common. Iatromisia is
an intense dislike of doctors.

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Steve Hayes - 25 Aug 2010 10:23 GMT
>>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common. Iatromisia is
>an intense dislike of doctors.

I would have thought it was an intense dislike of kidnappers.

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Steve Hayes - 25 Aug 2010 10:26 GMT
>There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common. Iatromisia is
>an intense dislike of doctors.

No, not kidnappers, thieves.

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James Hogg - 25 Aug 2010 10:39 GMT
>> There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common. Iatromisia is
>> an intense dislike of doctors.
>
> No, not kidnappers, thieves.

One reason for not using a sans-serif font.

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Mike Lyle - 25 Aug 2010 22:43 GMT
>>> There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common.
>>> Iatromisia is an intense dislike of doctors.
>>
>> No, not kidnappers, thieves.
>
> One reason for not using a sans-serif font.

And for not mingling Greek and Latin.

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Stan Brown - 26 Aug 2010 11:11 GMT
> >>> There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common.
> >>> Iatromisia is an intense dislike of doctors.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> And for not mingling Greek and Latin.

Right -- I drive my ipsomobile(*) to work every day.

(*) I first heard that from Isaac Asimov in a lecture at my college
in 1970 or 1971.

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Roland Hutchinson - 31 Aug 2010 04:05 GMT
>> >>> There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common.
>> >>> Iatromisia is an intense dislike of doctors.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Right -- I drive my ipsomobile(*) to work every day.

It's much classier to drive an autokinetikon, dontcha know.

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Steve Hayes - 31 Aug 2010 04:33 GMT
>> Right -- I drive my ipsomobile(*) to work every day.
>
>It's much classier to drive an autokinetikon, dontcha know.

On a leoforio, until you hit one.

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Mike Barnes - 25 Aug 2010 23:18 GMT
James Hogg <Jas.Hogg@gOUTmail.com>:

>>> There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common. Iatromisia is
>>> an intense dislike of doctors.
>>
>> No, not kidnappers, thieves.
>
>One reason for not using a sans-serif font.

A good reason for not using Arial, yes. But there's no problem with many
other sans fonts.

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mm - 26 Aug 2010 09:17 GMT
>>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>There is already a suffix -misia, albeit not very common. Iatromisia is
>an intense dislike of doctors.

Well that's very good to know. Thank you.  

BTW, I read the posts san-serif, but when I start to reply it grows
serifs.  It's serific.
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Mike Lyle - 26 Aug 2010 11:33 GMT
[...]

>>> Words intended to describe dislike are for misanthrope and that word
>>> for not liking foreigners.
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> BTW, I read the posts san-serif, but when I start to reply it grows
> serifs.  It's serific.

These serifim are really bright.

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HVS - 25 Aug 2010 09:11 GMT
On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote

>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Words intended to describe dislike are for misanthrope and that word
> for not liking foreigners.

But isn't that suffixed with "-phobe"?

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James Hogg - 25 Aug 2010 09:37 GMT
> On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> But isn't that suffixed with "-phobe"?

I see that Greek "phobos" meant "panic flight" or "panic fear", with no
connotations of hatred. The root is Indo-European *bhegw-, which has
also yielded the Slavic word for "run".

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Cheryl P. - 25 Aug 2010 11:13 GMT
>> On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> connotations of hatred. The root is Indo-European *bhegw-, which has
> also yielded the Slavic word for "run".

Perhaps the thinking was that people hate things they fear - but they
don't, not always. I don't hate bad drivers but I'm afraid of them. The
idea does encourage a kind of pop psychology, though - the only reason
you don't enthusiastically support Group A is because you have an
underlying and unreasonable fear of them, carefully disguised as
indifference!

The meaning has drifted so that it now seems to refer to dislike,
indifference, rejection and also even disagreement with political stands
 that members of the group are claimed to hold - as though any group
entirely agreed on politics! Even political parties don't manage that,
and they're organized on the assumption that they do agree politically,
at least long enough to get and hold power.

I don't think there's any way to entirely avoid this sort of shift in
meaning.
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mm - 26 Aug 2010 10:04 GMT
>>> On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
>Perhaps the thinking was that people hate things they fear - but they

Maybe, but do they fear all the things they hate?

>don't, not always. I don't hate bad drivers but I'm afraid of them. The
>idea does encourage a kind of pop psychology, though - the only reason
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>I don't think there's any way to entirely avoid this sort of shift in
>meaning.

Good post.
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mm - 26 Aug 2010 09:41 GMT
>On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>But isn't that suffixed with "-phobe"?

Oh, yeah.  I couldn't remember the word until you gave me the clue.
Xenophobe.  That might actually be fear, so when it is, the word is
accurate.  Even applied generally it might not be so bad, because
I'lll bet the fear of them taking jobs, or being disloyal, or during
war, being a fifth column is pretty common.   I think at least some
xenophobes would agree it's fear.

"Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the suffix
-phobe or -phobia.  They don't talk about it much anymore, because the
discussion is at a different stage, but used to be, there was a
frequent claim that the reason straight people didn't like homosexuals
is that deep down they *feared* such tendencies were in themselves.
That that was the only reason.

It was an example of "The best defense is a good offense."   I'm sure
those gays making the statements did so as part of their strategy,
although they probably also believed what they said.  (For those who
did believe it, I suspect it was because they were projecting from
their own feelings, because deep down they did have homosexual
tendencies, and probably on the surface too.)      And while I think
that's probably true that some straight people fear they might be gay
deep down, I think it's less than half, and for the others, I don't
think they think that.  

In fact the later position, their current position, that gayness is
inborn and that gays know they have such feelings by the time puberty
starts (or even earlier) probably to some extent contradicts the idea
that many straight people are gay deep-down.  Because they would have
had earlier feelings.  Of course, some of the strongest, most public
enemies of pro-gay policies are indeed gay. Quite a few, like the
Congressman who was messing with teenage boys, pages?, who were in DC
under some Congressional program, and who also took the strongest most
aggressive anti-gay stand in Congress.   But people like that are no
more than 5 percent of the population.   Most people have no
opportunity to take a position that anyone outside their family knows
about.   They don't go to rallies, they don't have jobs that allow
them to influence the country's or even a few people's situation.
There usually isn't even a referendum to vote on, but I wouldn't count
that anyhow, because their votes are just one in many.

Anyhow, I think the word homophobia and the argument that it
symbolized distorted the discussion.    Sort of the equivalent of two
people discussing how to be stylishly dressed and one saying either,
You're too concerned about every hair being in its place, OR You're a
slop anyhow.   Either one turns the topic on to the other person, and
ignores real standards of style.   Or real views on the propriety of
homosexual behaviour.   (Who are they to have views and votes on other
people's behaviour is another topic, IMO.)

I should never start these things because I can't quit in the middle.
I hope I didn't offend anyone.
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HVS - 26 Aug 2010 10:09 GMT
On 26 Aug 2010, mm wrote

>> On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>>
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> frequent claim that the reason straight people didn't like homosexuals
> is that deep down they *feared* such tendencies were in themselves.

-snip purely for brevity-

Although that argument has certainly been put often enought, I always
assumed the "-phobe" in "homophobia" related to a fear of predatory, rather
than suppressed, homosexuality.

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 26 Aug 2010 16:30 GMT
> On 26 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> always assumed the "-phobe" in "homophobia" related to a fear of
> predatory, rather than suppressed, homosexuality.

Strictly speaking, it was neither, at least in the mind of the guy who
coined the word, George Weinberg (who is straight, BTW):

   After trying to introduce gay friends of mine to heterosexuals in
   those days I just almost couldn't make the bridge. They always
   found reasons not to invite them to their homes and I realized
   that this is a classical phobic revulsion. They exhibited the same
   traits as your claustrophobic, your agoraphobic except that they
   were traits toward gays.

The notion is that there's an intense irrational discomfort caused by
gays and that the hatred is an attempt to rationalize the discomfort
and keep the object away from them where they don't have to deal with
it.

I doubt if most homophobes could accurately tell you whether their
revulsion stems from worry due to their own occasional homosexual
fantasies, worry that they might have been "deceived" by friends (of
either sex), worry that they might be the object of sexual interest
from someone they couldn't conceive reciprocating such feelings for,
worry that they might someone might try to "make" them or those they
know gay, or some combination of these and others.  They just perceive
a "wrongness" that they can't deal with, and it scares them.

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Stan Brown - 28 Aug 2010 13:06 GMT
> I doubt if most homophobes could accurately tell you whether their
> revulsion stems from worry due to their own occasional homosexual
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> know gay, or some combination of these and others.  They just perceive
> a "wrongness" that they can't deal with, and it scares them.

I doubt *any* bigot can explain the etiology of their bigotry,
because they don't perceive it as a flaw needing explanation. They
look on their revulsion as natural and commendable and see a flaw
only in the object of that revulsion -- much as a sane person feels
about cockroaches.

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Cheryl P. - 28 Aug 2010 13:18 GMT
>> I doubt if most homophobes could accurately tell you whether their
>> revulsion stems from worry due to their own occasional homosexual
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> only in the object of that revulsion -- much as a sane person feels
> about cockroaches.

But 'phobia' terms aren't necessarily applied to bigots. They're very
often applied to someone who disagrees with the speaker as a way to
deflect any possible debate away from the speaker's claims and onto the
mental state of the speaker's opponent. And it's such a powerful, if
rather unfair and irrational, tool for that purpose that the terms are
now almost useless as a description of them mental or moral state of the
target.

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Steve Hayes - 26 Aug 2010 10:32 GMT
>"Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the suffix
>-phobe or -phobia.  They don't talk about it much anymore, because the
>discussion is at a different stage, but used to be, there was a
>frequent claim that the reason straight people didn't like homosexuals
>is that deep down they *feared* such tendencies were in themselves.
>That that was the only reason.

I still don't use "homophobe" (ie it's in my passve, not active vocabulary)
because I think it should be the antonym of xenophobe, or heterophobe (fear of
the foreign, or other).

I still have a niggling feeling that "homophobe" should be reserved for "The
idiot who praises, with enthusiastic tone, All centuries but this, and every
country but his own."

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James Hogg - 26 Aug 2010 10:46 GMT
>> "Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the suffix
>> -phobe or -phobia.  They don't talk about it much anymore, because the
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> idiot who praises, with enthusiastic tone, All centuries but this, and every
> country but his own."

That home-feeling idiocy sounds more like homophilia to me.

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Mike Lyle - 26 Aug 2010 11:44 GMT
[...]

>> I still have a niggling feeling that "homophobe" should be reserved
>> for "The idiot who praises, with enthusiastic tone, All centuries
>> but this, and every country but his own."
>
> That home-feeling idiocy sounds more like homophilia to me.

Being a haemophobic homophobic homoiophobe is going the whole hog, or,
as we psychiatrists call it, hemiphobia.

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HVS - 26 Aug 2010 13:42 GMT
On 26 Aug 2010, Mike Lyle wrote

> [...]
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> Being a haemophobic homophobic homoiophobe is going the whole hog, or,
> as we psychiatrists call it, hemiphobia.

Wouldn't "hemiphobia" refer to only the upper or lower half of the whole hog?

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James Hogg - 26 Aug 2010 13:43 GMT
> On 26 Aug 2010, Mike Lyle wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Wouldn't "hemiphobia" refer to only the upper or lower half of the whole hog?

Or just one flitch.

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HVS - 26 Aug 2010 13:52 GMT
On 26 Aug 2010, James Hogg wrote

>> On 26 Aug 2010, Mike Lyle wrote
>>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Or just one flitch.

Which you done mowed off it this morning?

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James Hogg - 26 Aug 2010 13:55 GMT
> On 26 Aug 2010, James Hogg wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> Which you done mowed off it this morning?

Hands up who didn't get that!

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Mike Barnes - 26 Aug 2010 14:33 GMT
James Hogg <Jas.Hogg@gOUTmail.com>:
>> On 26 Aug 2010, James Hogg wrote
>>
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
>Hands up who didn't get that!

Dunmow what you're talking about.

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Peter Duncanson (BrE) - 26 Aug 2010 16:09 GMT
>James Hogg <Jas.Hogg@gOUTmail.com>:
>>> On 26 Aug 2010, James Hogg wrote
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
>Dunmow what you're talking about.

My son and I passed through there on the way from Stansted to Southend
for the Ruby wedding jollifications of one of my sisters in July. We saw
no flitch.

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Robert Bannister - 27 Aug 2010 02:09 GMT
>> James Hogg <Jas.Hogg@gOUTmail.com>:
>>>> On 26 Aug 2010, James Hogg wrote
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> for the Ruby wedding jollifications of one of my sisters in July. We saw
> no flitch.

Though cowards flitch and traitors beer,
We'll keep the wedding jolly here.

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Steve Hayes - 26 Aug 2010 18:33 GMT
>[...]
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>Being a haemophobic homophobic homoiophobe is going the whole hog, or,
>as we psychiatrists call it, hemiphobia.

Wot, no haemophiliac?

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Peter Duncanson (BrE) - 26 Aug 2010 18:43 GMT
>Being a haemophobic homophobic homoiophobe is going the whole hog, or,
>as we psychiatrists call it, hemiphobia.

Going a small fraction of the hog is hemidemisemiphobia.

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Roland Hutchinson - 29 Aug 2010 20:47 GMT
>>Being a haemophobic homophobic homoiophobe is going the whole hog, or,
>>as we psychiatrists call it, hemiphobia.
>
> Going a small fraction of the hog is hemidemisemiphobia.

I thought that was being afraid of a 4.5-wheeler.

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Mike Lyle - 29 Aug 2010 23:00 GMT
>> Being a haemophobic homophobic homoiophobe is going the whole hog,
>> or, as we psychiatrists call it, hemiphobia.
>
> Going a small fraction of the hog is hemidemisemiphobia.

No, that's hemisemidemiphilia.

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Steve Hayes - 26 Aug 2010 18:34 GMT
>>> "Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the suffix
>>> -phobe or -phobia.  They don't talk about it much anymore, because the
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
>That home-feeling idiocy sounds more like homophilia to me.

The other odd thing is that people who murder children are called
"paedophiles".

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Amethyst Deceiver - 26 Aug 2010 20:15 GMT
>>>> "Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the suffix
>>>> -phobe or -phobia.  They don't talk about it much anymore, because the
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>The other odd thing is that people who murder children are called
>"paedophiles".

Er, paedophiles rarely murder children.
CDB - 27 Aug 2010 13:30 GMT
>>>>> "Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the
>>>>> suffix -phobe or -phobia.  They don't talk about it much
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Er, paedophiles rarely murder children.

Presumably the impression comes from all the fuss made when they do.
But "paedophile" is IMO a misnomer intended to soften the impact of
"paederast".
Peter Moylan - 28 Aug 2010 03:51 GMT
>>> The other odd thing is that people who murder children are called
>>> "paedophiles".
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> But "paedophile" is IMO a misnomer intended to soften the impact of
> "paederast".

The problem with "paederast" is that it led to the vilification of
podiatrists.

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The Real Bev - 31 Aug 2010 00:28 GMT
Thank you, gentlemen, especially Mr. Hogg who introduced "-misia".
Infortunately it's so little-used (I've never even heard of it) that it
would lead to confusion much like the podiatrist/pederast dichotomy, and
people could get killed :-(

Before 9/11 I doubt that there was much islamophobia or islamomisia in
the US, but things are very different now.  Is 'religiomisia' a real word?

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Stan Brown - 26 Aug 2010 11:20 GMT
> >On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
> >> Words intended to describe dislike are for misanthrope and that word
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Xenophobe.  That might actually be fear, so when it is, the word is
> accurate.

The line between fear and hate is generally a pretty thin one.  While
-phobia meant fear in its origin, I don't think it's much of a
stretch to use it for fear and hatred.

> "Homophobe" is what caught my attention years ago regarding the
> suffix -phobe or -phobia. They don't talk about it much anymore,
> because the discussion is at a different stage, but used to be,
> there was a frequent claim that the reason straight people didn't
> like homosexuals is that deep down they *feared* such tendencies
> were in themselves. That that was the only reason.

I was with you until your last sentence.  There are plenty of women
who hate and fear gay men yet obviously have no fear that they
themselves are inwardly gay men.  Fear of one's own inner nature is
obviously one possible origin of homophobia, but it's far from the
only one and I've never heard anyone claim that it *is* the only one.

Look at anti-Semitism: people who hate Jews do so because they
perceive them as different, not because they secretly fear that they
might have "Jewish tendencies" themselves.

Primates generally, including humans, are pretty intensely tribal and
hostile toward outsiders, however defined.  It's no accident that
Hitler's three main targets were Jews, homosexuals, and gypsies --
all three could be identified as "other" to the Germans.  Falwell,
Buchanan, and their ilk learned the lesson well, but their targets
shifted to homosexuals and intellectuals.

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mm - 26 Aug 2010 19:37 GMT
>> >On 25 Aug 2010, mm wrote
>> >> Words intended to describe dislike are for misanthrope and that word
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
>I was with you until your last sentence.  There are plenty of women

YOu're right. I didn't go into women's reactions towards gay men. I
think those whose words I was trying to repeat didn't either.   I
think they only considered men's reactions.  It's too late for me to
ask them about this and I din't know them even at the time.  I just
red or heard what they said.

>who hate and fear gay men yet obviously have no fear that they
>themselves are inwardly gay men.  Fear of one's own inner nature is
>obviously one possible origin of homophobia, but it's far from the
>only one and I've never heard anyone claim that it *is* the only one.

While not saying there were no others, I think on more than one
occasion, I heard that reason pushed a lot.  

>Look at anti-Semitism: people who hate Jews do so because they
>perceive them as different, not because they secretly fear that they
>might have "Jewish tendencies" themselves.

Well, I agree with you, but the ones I heard talk about this might
not.

For a fuller picture of my (fwiw) views, I should reply to a couple
other posts in this thread, but it's strange how interesting this
topic was late last night, and how interested I was in shopping for a
part for the computer then, and other things late last night, and how
my interest in all of them has waned.  Maybe late tonight they will
seem very important again.

>Primates generally, including humans, are pretty intensely tribal and
>hostile toward outsiders, however defined.  It's no accident that
>Hitler's three main targets were Jews, homosexuals, and gypsies --
>all three could be identified as "other" to the Germans.  Falwell,
>Buchanan, and their ilk learned the lesson well, but their targets
>shifted to homosexuals and intellectuals.

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Roland Hutchinson - 29 Aug 2010 20:44 GMT
> Look at anti-Semitism: people who hate Jews do so because they perceive
> them as different, not because they secretly fear that they might have
> "Jewish tendencies" themselves.

Yeah, like monotheism, congregational polity, the Ten Commandments, the
Psalms...

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Steve Hayes - 25 Aug 2010 10:23 GMT
>>Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>>islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
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>Words intended to describe dislike are for misanthrope and that word
>for not liking foreigners.

xenophobia?

misxegenation?

>If mis- doesn't work as a prefix, how about -misonia as a suffix?

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JimboCat - 25 Aug 2010 17:27 GMT
> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
> indifference or rejection rather than fear?

Perhaps you could use the word "agnostic" as an example to build on...

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Steve Hayes - 25 Aug 2010 18:09 GMT
>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
>> indifference or rejection rather than fear?
>
>Perhaps you could use the word "agnostic" as an example to build on...

as in

atheist
apolitical
amoral

?

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mm - 26 Aug 2010 10:06 GMT
>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to indicate
>> indifference or rejection rather than fear?
>
>Perhaps you could use the word "agnostic" as an example to build on...

Well, there's the phrase I hear occasionally, "I'm agnostic on that
issue" meaning they haven't made their mind up, I guess.  I don't know
if that implies idifference, or not.  

>Jim Deutch (JimboCat)

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Evan Kirshenbaum - 26 Aug 2010 16:35 GMT
>>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to
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> issue" meaning they haven't made their mind up, I guess.  I don't
> know if that implies idifference, or not.

No.  You have to be an apathetic agnostic to both not know and not
care.  ("What's the difference between 'agnostic' and 'apathetic'?")

In both cases "a-" just means "not".

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JimboCat - 26 Aug 2010 20:23 GMT
> >>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
> >>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to
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>
> In both cases "a-" just means "not".

The Wikipedia article "Apatheism"

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apatheism

includes "Apathetic agnosticism (also called pragmatic agnosticism)".

I don't like the sound of "apahomoism" much, though...

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Steve Hayes - 27 Aug 2010 05:23 GMT
>> >>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>> >>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc.  What suffix can be used to
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
>includes "Apathetic agnosticism (also called pragmatic agnosticism)".

Interesting then that apatheia is the goal of zealous Christian mystics.

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CDB - 27 Aug 2010 13:31 GMT
>>>>> Lots of phobic words are being bandied about now -- homophobia,
>>>>> islamophobia, francophobia, etc. What suffix can be used to
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> includes "Apathetic agnosticism (also called pragmatic
> agnosticism)".

But there is a confusion of prefixes here.  As the article says,
"apatheism" is a portmanteau and not a seriously-constructed word, but
it looks, considering the meaning, like "ap-" (away from) plus
"atheism", with a dismal sort of pun on the alpha-privative of
"a-pathetic".  In fact, I think "ap-" would be a better choice, for a
word replacing "homophobia" with something nicer-sounding, than "a-".

> I don't like the sound of "apahomoism" much, though...

Indeed.  Aphomophilists unite!  Off 'em awfully!
Robert Bannister - 28 Aug 2010 02:10 GMT
> But there is a confusion of prefixes here.  As the article says,
> "apatheism" is a portmanteau and not a seriously-constructed word, but
> it looks, considering the meaning, like "ap-" (away from) plus
> "atheism", with a dismal sort of pun on the alpha-privative of
> "a-pathetic".  In fact, I think "ap-" would be a better choice, for a
> word replacing "homophobia" with something nicer-sounding, than "a-".

So you're going for Welsh "son of".

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CDB - 28 Aug 2010 14:41 GMT
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CDB wrote:

> But there is a confusion of prefixes here.  As the article says,
> "apatheism" is a portmanteau and not a seriously-constructed word,
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> word replacing "homophobia" with something nicer-sounding, than
> "a-".

So you're going for Welsh "son of".

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