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kat - 02 Nov 2003 01:46 GMT
I want to present a question.

When someone calls on the phone and I answer and they ask to speak with me
is it best to answer like this:

Q: May I speak with Jose.

A:This is he
or
A: This is him

I think the corrrect way is This is he because I am not a indirect object
but a direct object.

THank you very much.

Jose Luis
Einde O'Callaghan - 02 Nov 2003 02:25 GMT
> I want to present a question.
>
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> I think the corrrect way is This is he because I am not a indirect object
> but a direct object.

The correct form would be "This is him" - it is an idiomatic usage.

However, this isn't what we actually say on the phone. In reality we say:

Q: May i speak with Jose?

A: Speaking.

Regards, Einde O'Callaghan
Tamakazura - 02 Nov 2003 02:51 GMT
>> I want to present a question.
>>
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>
> A: Speaking.

I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman thing?
 Men don't say, "This is he,"?
CyberCypher - 02 Nov 2003 03:44 GMT
>>> I want to present a question.
>>>
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> I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman
> thing?

Usually. Some male homosexuals and transvestites have been known to
use "This is she".

>   Men don't say, "This is he,"?

Very few. They generally say "Speaking" or "This is Jose".

Even though there's not case in Japanese or Chinese, both languages
use the same construction:

       Watashi desu.
    Wo shi.

Tamakazura - 02 Nov 2003 14:59 GMT
>>I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman
>>thing?
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>         Watashi desu.
>      Wo shi.

In Japanese, "watashi desu" can be used by both men and women.  Isn't it
nice?
CyberCypher - 02 Nov 2003 15:17 GMT
>>>I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman
>>>thing?
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> In Japanese, "watashi desu" can be used by both men and women.
> Isn't it nice?

Yes, that is nice. No problem with the stupidity of allegedly sexist
pronouns, except, of course, for "kare" and "kanojo". In Chinese, it's
"ta" for "he", "she", and "it", but the kanji give away the gender.
Tamakazura - 02 Nov 2003 16:27 GMT
>>In Japanese, "watashi desu" can be used by both men and women.
>>Isn't it nice?
>
> Yes, that is nice. No problem with the stupidity of allegedly sexist
> pronouns, except, of course, for "kare" and "kanojo". In Chinese, it's
> "ta" for "he", "she", and "it", but the kanji give away the gender.

Yeah, Chinese is much closer to English than Japanese in most aspect.
CyberCypher - 02 Nov 2003 23:56 GMT
>>>In Japanese, "watashi desu" can be used by both men and women.
>>>Isn't it nice?
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> Yeah, Chinese is much closer to English than Japanese in most
> aspect.

But Japanese seems to me a much more grammatically reasonable language
than either Chinese or English.
Tamakazura - 03 Nov 2003 12:59 GMT
>>Yeah, Chinese is much closer to English than Japanese in most
>>aspect.
>
> But Japanese seems to me a much more grammatically reasonable language
> than either Chinese or English.

You are out of your mind.  However, I prefer Japanese when I have to
study math; I prefer English when I have to study music.
Einde O'Callaghan - 02 Nov 2003 12:27 GMT
>>> I want to present a question.
>>>
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> I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman thing?
>  Men don't say, "This is he,"?

I would regard this form as hyper-correct, i.e. sombody following a rule
that they have been told is teh correct form.

Regards, Einde O'Callaghan
Tamakazura - 02 Nov 2003 14:54 GMT
>> I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman
>> thing?  Men don't say, "This is he,"?
>>
> I would regard this form as hyper-correct, i.e. sombody following a rule
> that they have been told is teh correct form.

That was an example rendered by my English teacher when he explained
what was colloquialism and what not.
Adrian Bailey - 03 Nov 2003 22:32 GMT
> > I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman thing?
> >  Men don't say, "This is he,"?
> >
> I would regard this form as hyper-correct, i.e. sombody following a rule
> that they have been told is teh correct form.

I'd say hypercorrection is making a mistake when one is trying to be
correct. "This is she." isn't a mistake so I wouldn't call it a
hypercorrection.

Adrian
Einde O'Callaghan - 03 Nov 2003 23:26 GMT
>>>I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman thing?
>>> Men don't say, "This is he,"?
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> correct. "This is she." isn't a mistake so I wouldn't call it a
> hypercorrection.

It's old fashioned and sounds a bit odd to me.

Regards, Einde O'Callaghan
Iain Diamond - 04 Nov 2003 17:10 GMT
> >>>I've heard people say, "This is she," very often.  Is it a woman thing?
> >>> Men don't say, "This is he,"?
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> >
> It's old fashioned and sounds a bit odd to me.

I think it's regarded as very formal English, which can sometimes be
very old fashioned. I've heard the occasional news reporter using this
type of language. In my experience it's very rare, and not likely to
become fashionable anytime soon.

Iain
John Ramsay - 04 Nov 2003 23:55 GMT
> >>> I want to present a question.
> >>>
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>
> Regards, Einde O'Callaghan

Technically it should be 'this is he'.  Subjective
completion of a copula verb.

Same with 'It is I' rather' than 'It is me'

But as Einde noted earlier, idiomatic usage
tends to overrule grammar.

Perhaps Pogo's 'We have met the enemy and he is us'
had something to do with that -:)
Free Spirit - 28 Nov 2003 14:15 GMT
Hi there,

Could any one help me out?

1. a mean hand at something means be good at something

What is the difference in the following sentences?

a.  She is a mean hand at carpentry.

b.  She has a mean hand at carpentry.

2. What is the difference between one-on-one and one-to-one?

Thanks.

FS
Adrian Bailey - 28 Nov 2003 15:32 GMT
> 1. a mean hand at something means be good at something
>
> What is the difference in the following sentences?
> a.  She is a mean hand at carpentry.
> b.  She has a mean hand at carpentry.

(b) is wrong, imo.

> 2. What is the difference between one-on-one and one-to-one?

A competition can be one-on-one.
A conversation can be one-to-one.

Adrian
Free Spirit - 30 Nov 2003 20:51 GMT
>> 1. a mean hand at something means be good at something
>>
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>
> (b) is wrong, imo.

Thanks a lot, Adrian.

So, a mean hand doesn't belong to the group like, a tin ear, a green thumb
and two left feet, in which, to have is used instead of to be. For example,

She/he has a green thumb/tin ear/two left feet.


>> 2. What is the difference between one-on-one and one-to-one?
>
> A competition can be one-on-one.
> A conversation can be one-to-one.

How about tutoring? Should one-on-one or one-to-one be used?

Zoe
Michael - 30 Nov 2003 22:59 GMT
> >> 1. a mean hand at something means be good at something
> >>
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>
> Zoe

There's often no logic to idiom, nor (in my view) is there really a right
or wrong in a large, moral sense.

What is acceptable is what is conventional; and what is conventional is
what has been repeated (for any number of reasons) by a given group of
speakers and writers.

Why does one sentence sound better than another? Only because it is
recognized in some way by a native speaker. When someone says that it
"sounds right to me," the native speaker usually means that he or she has
heard it and remembers or recognizes it, not necessarily because there
is some arcane logic at work.

The key is iteration, not morality or logic.

M.
John Ramsay - 01 Dec 2003 16:58 GMT
> >> 1. a mean hand at something means be good at something
> >>
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>
> Zoe

In N American English one-on-one is an adversarial situation.

Of course that can also happen with tutoring -:)
Free Spirit - 28 Nov 2003 14:14 GMT
> A:This is he

This is standard/written English.

> or
> A: This is him

This is commonly used oral English.

Both are correct.

FS
 
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