> Hi, there.
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> Marty.
>The expression itself, "he cut off his nose to spite his face", means, from
>my understanding, that you've done something that you thought would be
>helpful to yourself but it turned out to be the exact opposite.
No, the phrase refers to an act of sulky, childish petulance,
disadvantaging oneself in order to do harm to an opponent or
adversary.
Think of the little girl who loves to go for walks with her mother,
but who after being punished for a misdeed, says she doesn't want to
go for a walk, even to the ice-cream store. "No! I don't wanna go!
Nobody loves me! Everybody hates me! I'm gonna go in the garden and
eat worms!"
Alan Bernardo - 21 Jul 2004 12:47 GMT
> >The expression itself, "he cut off his nose to spite his face", means, from
> >my understanding, that you've done something that you thought would be
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> disadvantaging oneself in order to do harm to an opponent or
> adversary.
Makes sense. There is the sense of unruliness and stupidly, which my
explanation didn't convey.
Thanks,
Alanb