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T. Z. - 12 Dec 2004 23:39 GMT
 
 
Does anyone know the origin of this quote (or equiv)?

"When you look back on your life, you'll regret the
things you didn't do more than the ones you did."

It must be much older than H. Jackson Brown, Jr.'s
book "Life's Little Instruction Book" 1991.

Is it a variant of Tennyson?
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all. - from In Memoriam
 


       
Martin Ambuhl - 13 Dec 2004 01:07 GMT
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>  
> Does anyone know the origin of this quote (or equiv)?
>
> "When you look back on your life, you'll regret the
> things you didn't do more than the ones you did."

That is so pedestrian and unremarkable that it is hardly worth
remembering.  It certainly isn't worth keeping in a quotation file.
It's the sort of tripe that should appear over Jack Handley's name.

> It must be much older than H. Jackson Brown, Jr.'s
> book "Life's Little Instruction Book" 1991.

Just the sort of tedious pseudo-philosophical tract I would expect such
"deep thoughts" in.

If you ever reach total enlightenment while you're drinking a beer, I
bet it makes beer shoot out your nose. -- Jack Handley
Raymond S. Wise - 13 Dec 2004 03:29 GMT
>> Does anyone know the origin of this quote (or equiv)?
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> If you ever reach total enlightenment while you're drinking a beer, I
> bet it makes beer shoot out your nose. -- Jack Handley

It's Jack *Handey,* whose work is always interesting. If I were given the
choice between reading something called *Life's Little Instruction Book* and
a collection of *Deep Thoughts* by Jack Handey, I'd pick the latter without
hesitation.

For the spelling of his name, which is often misspelled on the Internet, see
the following cover of a book of postcards based upon his work:

http://images.amazon.com/images/G/covers/0/83/623/206/0836232062.m.gif

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Dan Clore - 13 Dec 2004 04:42 GMT
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> 'Tis better to have loved and lost
> Than never to have loved at all. - from In Memoriam

I don't know. But there's also:

"Father, what does regret mean?"
"Well, son, a funny thing about regret is, that it's always
better to regret something you have done, than to regret
something you haven't done. And by the way, if you see your
mom this weekend, be sure and tell her 'Satan! Satan! Satan!'"

-- Butthole Surfers, "Sweat Loaf"

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Ben Zimmer - 13 Dec 2004 06:40 GMT
> Does anyone know the origin of this quote (or equiv)?
>
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> It must be much older than H. Jackson Brown, Jr.'s
> book "Life's Little Instruction Book" 1991.

Various websites attribute the following quote to the syndicated
columnist Sydney J. Harris (1917-1986):

"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for
the things we did not do that is inconsolable."

A search on the Newspaperarchive.com database finds that this quote did
indeed appear in Harris' column on Jan. 8, 1951 (syndicated in the Daily
Courier of Waterloo, Iowa).
Martin Ambuhl - 13 Dec 2004 08:35 GMT
> Various websites attribute the following quote to the syndicated
> columnist Sydney J. Harris (1917-1986):
>
> "Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for
> the things we did not do that is inconsolable."

But did he ever write anything worth remembering? At least that's better
than the "When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you
didn't do more than the ones you did" that the original poster asked
about. As another Harris [1]  said to A. J. Balfour, "All the faults of
the age come from Christianity and journalism."

[1]known as Frank Harris, but really James Thomas Harris.
Jess Askin - 13 Dec 2004 16:31 GMT
> > Various websites attribute the following quote to the syndicated
> > columnist Sydney J. Harris (1917-1986):
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
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> [1]known as Frank Harris, but really James Thomas Harris.

Or says he said. He was an infamous résumé padder.
David Loftus - 13 Dec 2004 16:51 GMT
> > > Various websites attribute the following quote to the syndicated
> > > columnist Sydney J. Harris (1917-1986):
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> Or says he said. He was an infamous résumé padder.

Sydney J. Harris wrote a lot of lovely things. I especially liked his
column about his "religion" -- something about being a Reformed
________ Druid.

But about the original question on this thread, I also recall a
rambling Ogden Nash poem about sins of omission and commission which
addressed much the same notions. Probably would date from the 1950s or
early 1960s.

David Loftus
 
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